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This is a discussion on ENFPs & self-confidence within the ENFP Forum - The Inspirers forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; Originally Posted by Ballerina lol i think my people have just stopped trying to figure it out :P People tend ...

I would say I'm pretty confident! To most of my peers I give off that gansta vibe.... and besides, I know they all want to be me.
Yes ma'am. Absolutely self confident. We are intelligent, personable, can make nearly anyone comfortable, we are inspiring to those around us, when driven - we can get pretty much anything done with efficiency and brilliance and we can emotionalize our cerebral and cerebralize our emotion.
what's not to love about that?
i will say though, when we are plagued with self doubt, that we feel that pretty intensely as well. good thing we get over that pretty quickly
I'm randomly self confident. In situations of conflict I'm crazy self confident.
But for the most part I'm not. Especially in settings that involve other people. I can be confident in ME, but have no idea how they see ME, so I don't know quite how to act. Thus - making me less self confident.
One of my least favourite things about ol' me.
I would say average confidence. But I'm a moody teenager with hormones and crap and it was much better when I was like 11...
Wow, I think I feel exactly the same way. I can do something at home, by myself, and feel good about it... the way I look in the mirror, my capabilities for getting what I need done, etc. But when I hit public places, I'm constantly wondering what they think of me. I know in reality I shouldn't worry, because I never pay that much attention to individual people the way I critique myself... but then it scares me to realize how much people are actually watching my every move at times. It's like... come on people, don't you have anything better to do than pay attention to little ol' me?
And that's why I have anxiety. For the five percent who pay enough attention, and to the one percent who care enough to make my life hell.
Being hyper does not necessarily equate to self-confidence. I have low self-confidence, but at the same time it doesn't affect how I act in public. I am silly and goofy, and have heard similar quotes to that. It makes me laugh when people ask what I am onPeople tend to think ENFP's are on ecstasy..
I'm extremely self conscious, always have been, don't see it changing any time soon. On a scale of 1-10, my confidence level is a 3. I can't stand attention, & I can't stand egotistic people either. There's a fine line between very self-confident & egotistic.
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