1. A different and exciting way of thinking. What I like most about ENFPs is what they see in me though.
2. To get the attention of an ENFP I only have to be myself. To hold it, I try to keep interacting with them and make an effort to be open with them.
3. Look for eye contact mostly. If I keep looking in your direction it means I like you. Also if I make an effort to be around you but then am to scared to say anything to you.
4. You have to take the lead but don't go too fast. You have to realize that just because I am cold and don't talk to you much doesn't mean I don't want a relationship with you. The ENFP has to get things started.