So I need some ENFP help! Because y'all be so amazing.
My ex and I broke up a little under a month ago. It took me a really long and hard time to get over him, but I'm at this point where I'm starting to feel good about life again. I'm excited about new things unrelated to relationships (traveling, volunteering, school) and I'm rekindling old friendships that I neglected when I was with my ex. Then I think back onto our relationship and I think, "I'm glad it ended. He was so bad for me."
I'm all about CLEAN BREAKS. I don't want a friendship after the relationship and I don't want to be associated with him AT ALL anymore. I think it might be a pride thing--in the relationship, I tried harder and I fell in love. He never loved me back. He also made me feel bad about myself. Made my jealousy feel unjustified (he had a female friend he referred to as honey, but he said I should understand since they've been calling each other that before he met me) and always placed me last (he put partying, alcohol, his clubs and friends first and then said I was too clingy because I'd get upset). So being friends with him would just be a reminder of all of that. No thanks, mister.
I want to start feeling better about myself and to get past this! But every time I see him on facebook (I blocked any newsfeed updates from him, but I still see his name pop up on fb chat and he sometimes "likes" my friend's statuses), I get that icky yucky feeling at the pit of my stomach. I also want to delete all his friends, including his friends (yes, this means the girl he calls honey. She calls him honey too btw), but that'll make me look like a beezy! I don't hate them, I just don't want to see them.
But I know he'll call me immature if I do that. Again, it's the pride speaking. And that's too "extreme." Man, I hate facebook. It makes breakups so much harder to get over.
Sorry for the long message! But how would you guys handle this situation?