Ok so I'm kinda new at this whole ENFP thing, i've always been interested in it but never jumped right in, until recently. My ISTP bf and I are at a make or break point in our relationship. Seemingly, it's my fault, because, as he says "you just dont have that spark for me anymore". We've been together almost 3 years. But after the "honeymoon" stage(which ended about a year ago give or take) things have seemed to go downhill. And recently, I have been angry, very angry, which is totally not me. I know that I love him, I just don't know what I want and it's putting a total strain on us. And he has become so clingy and needy it just pushes me farther away.
Also, I practically had to beg just to get him to take the test, his response "why do i have to do this crap?" So he gave in finally, and after reading numerous posts i can see the difference in our personalities, and alot makes sense now. His logic vs. my "ridiculous" emotion. I think I've even adapted some of his attitudes to cope with the differences, but I feel like I've lost myself in the process and now feel like I'm losing my mind.
But my question is, once it gets to the make or break point, is there anything left to salvage? Can we put the pieces back together, or is it too late? I just want to be my happy, bubbly self again.
And I do apologize for being so scattered, my mind is a train wreck at the moment. If you need any additional info, let me know. Thanks in advance.
Just to add a little info, as I said before I am new to this, but I am also new to the forums thing. I am usually not one to post personal info, but after reading the posts here, I feel so welcomed. I think this may be a Godsend. I have always been somewhat different than my family and friends, most of them think I'm crazy in my own special way ;) but it's awesome to find others that actually think like I do. So that's why I decided to post here.