enfp men, what type do you prefer your gf to be?

**Loyalgirl** · 05-05-2011 09:47 PM

What are your top 3 fave types to date and why? I'm not just talking about someone who is fun to date but someone you get along well with and can have a close relationship with.

**Agile** · 05-05-2011 09:59 PM

Going to have to give a shout out to @Paradox1987 for the post in an earlier thread on this one:

Originally Posted by Paradox1987

Erm, in a nutshell, my answer would be "joie-de-vivre. I like women to be confident, intelligent and independent. I like spending time together etc, but personally, I can't make my life revolve around one person. I need a partner to understand some key facts; I don't do jealousy and I don't do micro-management. I expect my partner to have a life, one that we can talk about, just like I have a life. Another thing that tends to cause issues in my love life is that my best friend is a woman. I'm not massively close to my family, but my best friend is very much so family to me. Many women have problems getting this around their heads. So my ideal woman, and indeed, my ex, don't have this problem.

I don't like constant negativity. To my partner, I offer unconditional support, I pay attention to them, and really work towards to ensuring that every moment they spend with me is spent smiling. If I can, I like to discuss issues rather than argue over issues. I don't like women who live for dogma, you must be able to compromise. All I ask is that all the courtesies and effort and I put into my relationships are repaid to me. Don't be jealous, trust me. Don't control me, support me. Don't spend time with me for the sake of it, enjoy being with me. Don't be what you think I want you to be, be who I liked in the first place. Don't be afraid of having opinions, or disagreeing with me. Show me that you care. My ex made me a hand made dreamcatcher in purple; because I told her I missed having a dreamcatcher after I lost my old one. That sort of gesture melts me, and I'm all yours

**Tridentus** · 05-05-2011 10:05 PM

infp- cute and idealistic
infj- makes you wonder why it isn't so easy with everyone else
enfp- i like the quirky ones, i love indulging their randomness.

**pmj85** · 05-05-2011 11:08 PM

^ I'm with Tridentus ;)

**cal47** · 05-06-2011 12:43 AM

Gonna go with tridentus on this one as well. NF's take the cake. And I specifically like INFJs.

**HarpFluffy** · 05-06-2011 02:44 AM

So far so good, Loyalgirl.

It almost seems planned that many ENFP women prefer men outside their type. There are more ENFP women than there are men, and the same is true for NFs in general. If every NF woman wanted an NF man, some of them would necessarily get left out, even if every NF man preferred NF women. However, the NF men can all date and marry NF women and there will still be some left over who can – and want to – seek out men of other types.