So... might not be news to some of the more perceptive residents here, but Dejavu and I met up over winter break and spent a 16 days living together. We've been dating long distance for a while now... we met in the thread about INFJs being the ideal match for ENFPs.
We really had quite a spark from the getgo so it's been more than worth it, despite the distance. Haha, here we are
Typical INFJ death stare... (Was trying to smile, but I look cold as ever).. and her with her bubbly, unstoppable cute-ness.
ENFP and INFJ really has a great dynamic... Reading over the "Do you like INFJs" thread, I didn't really see any real description of what the INFJ/ENFP dynamic... is. So I asked Dejavu what she thought our dynamic was... Why we worked so well.
And I landed on a conclusion, at least from my point of view.
-Her Ne really energizes my Ni. I love it, and it really sparks discussion. Theorizing with each other is one of the more rewarding things we do together. We both appreciate each other's logic really well, and we can build upon each other.
-Just watching Ne-Fi is just so adorably cute... it brings to her a certain brightness that I find irresistible and enrapturing.
-Both of us are really ethical people. Even though I approach it from Fe, and she approaches it from Fi, I'd be hard-pressed to think of any situation that we came to different ethical judgments. that is to say... our values line up extremely well. (This is the main thing I think about when I hear that ENFPs and INFJs are different, but that they really GET each other... the ethics we share)
Anyway, if she and I represent your typical INFJ/ENFP relationship, then I gotta say: It works.
We really had quite a spark from the getgo so it's been more than worth it, despite the distance. Haha, here we are
Typical INFJ death stare... (Was trying to smile, but I look cold as ever).. and her with her bubbly, unstoppable cute-ness.
ENFP and INFJ really has a great dynamic... Reading over the "Do you like INFJs" thread, I didn't really see any real description of what the INFJ/ENFP dynamic... is. So I asked Dejavu what she thought our dynamic was... Why we worked so well.
And I landed on a conclusion, at least from my point of view.
-Her Ne really energizes my Ni. I love it, and it really sparks discussion. Theorizing with each other is one of the more rewarding things we do together. We both appreciate each other's logic really well, and we can build upon each other.
-Just watching Ne-Fi is just so adorably cute... it brings to her a certain brightness that I find irresistible and enrapturing.
-Both of us are really ethical people. Even though I approach it from Fe, and she approaches it from Fi, I'd be hard-pressed to think of any situation that we came to different ethical judgments. that is to say... our values line up extremely well. (This is the main thing I think about when I hear that ENFPs and INFJs are different, but that they really GET each other... the ethics we share)
Anyway, if she and I represent your typical INFJ/ENFP relationship, then I gotta say: It works.