Are ENFPs annoying?

**difromoz** · 10-30-2010 07:04 PM

Infrared...God I am so guilty of doing that to my kids but the two youngest are ENFP and xNFP (youngest) so that's probably why we annoy each other at times but also really understand one another so well. To be honest having studied all of this has been so helpful with my family relationships. I now tend to briefly explain or put down a rule and then leave it at that and best of all...actually follow through in an unemotional manner. takes lots of practice though...but it's working really well and actually results in very little conflict.

**SteffiQueenOfTheNerds** · 10-31-2010 10:02 PM

It all depends on who the person is, you can't classify like 1/8th of the world into a label.
Every ENFP is different as like every other type is different, and yeah man, there have been times where I have annoyed the living crap out of people.
But truly being "annoying" can only be temporary, unless if you are just THAT annoying!

All together I say no~
Everyone can be annoying and not just ENFP's. XB

**ENFPie** · 11-02-2010 02:46 AM

ENFPs want to be themselves and want to be loved for that - So why should we be any other way and loved for that - That is not us!

People seem to warm to me quite quickly but Ive found they distance after a while because they don't get me (i think!) which is heartbreaking because I love everyone and take it very personally

Not sure of the point im trying to make, but thats my thoughts lol

Pie x

**Ardent15** · 11-04-2010 11:42 AM

Well my mom, who is ENFP, is really social, really optimistic, but gets depressed easily.

So, yes. But to an INTP like me, everybody is annoying.

**Akbar2k7** · 11-20-2011 06:19 AM

Yes I am considered very annoying as I can be an attention whore and go of on a tangent inside class so no one learns anything.

**charlotteg2761** · 11-20-2011 07:28 AM

I have a few friends that are ENFP's, and neither of them annoy me. Being an INFJ (and you being an INFP probably find this similar), it's nice not having to worry about keeping up with conversation because once you get them started the go on and on and on about almost anything! They're so full of enthusiasm that it leaks through the empathic bond and you find yourself to be just as excited about completely mundane things! I do find that I sometimes have to have a bit of downtime after spending a lot of time with them, though, all that extraversion wears me out!

**wsmf** · 11-20-2011 02:23 PM

ENFPs CAN be very annoying. I have been told by people close to me that i'm very annoying. And i have ENFP friends who i would often like to gag or throw into a ditch. But ENFPs can be amazing, wonderful, beautiful creatures. Like other people have been saying, its probably got a lot to do with insecurity and maturity.
ENFPs are self obsessed. maybe the less mature ones display this more, i've noticed younger ENFPs than me going out of their way to make the conversation about them, actually talking over me if i started talking about anything else. How annoying is that?!