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Common things said to ENFP's

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#1 ·
Hello everyone. I was inspired by the INFP forum to post a similar thread about ENFP's. I'll start off: "Dude, you just tire me out" "You think like a girl, man" "Do you like to hear yourself talk or do you just pull random crap out of your butt?" (I replaced the curse words by the way) Post different things that are said to you as ENFP's.
 
#31 ·
You're the only friend I really trust.
You're gay.
You're weird.
You're crazy.
You're random.
You're always smiling.
You're always so nice.
You're affable.
You're confident.
You're loud.
You're short
Your eyes are really dark.
You look weird.
You're so friendly.
You're my best pal/buddy.
You're so uptight.
You're smart.
You're fun.
You're messy.
You're so stupid.
You're retarded.
You're weak.
You're mature/wise for your age.
You smile/laugh way too much.
You're trustworthy.
You're helpful.
I trust you.

:sad: Sigh, nobody says something like - 'I like your sensitive soul', or 'I want to help you too'. Sigh, it's just that when I seem to be in trouble, there is no help given. Even when I try to ask. But then I let that go so easily anyways; I seem to always just think for others, and not myself. Then I start berating myself for even doubting, or even asking for help, or being so selfish. I pray/hope random strangers will be happy on their day - like on the train or something. Or when I see someone doing something nice, I start wishing they get something good. I like smiling for people, but I'm not always 'smiling'. But everybody just takes the preconception that I am always 'happy'. People misunderstand my personality. It makes me feel disgusted - but I can't blame them. Sometimes I wish someone would care for me too. :sad: But then I start telling myself off for being selfish. :dry:

The thing I say to myself... 'You're selfish, and you're a hypocrite. Why are you like this?'

But then, I like my ENFP self. :happy: Why do I keep bouncing back...I don't even know.

Oh yea here's a favorite saying to myself - 'Who are you, Ming?'
 
#41 ·
Wow, Ming! Those get said to me quite often. I wish some others would ask me if I need help with certain things (specifically speaking) like paper work:crying:. Mundane tasks kill me:angry:! Or I wish that something wonderful happened to people who do good things out of thin air:happy:. I love people too:happy:. I also wish some would take the time to understand me more. I thank you graciously for your post, Ming.:proud:
 
#35 ·
Are you ready to go yet?
You're weird. (affectionately, from friends.)
You're really cheerful today, huh?
You crack me up.
I love you, too.
What time is it? Don't you have school tomorrow?
I've never said this to anyone before, but _____________
Thank you.
You're crazy. (also affectionately, from friends.)
You're really quiet today.
You're really loud today.
Hi.
Go to sleep.
Wake up.
Sweet dreams.
 
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#38 · (Edited)
These are similar to many others posted. I didn't include any of a sexual nature but the same things keep popping up.

You already told me that.
You're talking so loud!
You'd be great at...
I feel a lot better now. (after talking)
Why can't you just watch the news without talking about how the people feel?
This is unusual chemistry.
Go for it!
You know I could take what you just said, two ways.
This is meant to be.
You ask the most personal questions and I don't mind.
You're how old?
I feel excited when I see you.
Wow. You seem so young.
You have a crazy amount of energy!
You really love.
I always see you bouncing around.
You don't pay enough attention to detail.
You make me want to be a better man.
That's the best hug I've had in a long time.
Most people would...why can't you?
Most people would... but I'm so glad you don't!
I love your laugh.
You always worry about tomorrow.
Which is better: to be safe or have fun? Let's have fun!
You always see me better than I see myself.
You always make it fun!
Sometimes you seem so innocent.
You're really mature/wise. (said when I was very young and recently)
I've never known anyone like you.
I tell you things I don't tell other people.
You don't see yourself the way others see you.
You always find the positive.
We should smoke one some time. (I don't smoke.)
You don't smoke? You're kidding me.

***
Love to the rest of you ENFPs!
 
#40 ·
"Ow. My ears."
"I can't explain it, I just feel this deep connection with you..."
"Let's get married!" (not joking either :frustrating: )
"How do you do it?"
 
#44 ·
"Do all of your other friends understand your rambling?"


My INTJ room mate said this to me this afternoon. I'm not sure if he does understand my rambling, or if he is trying to state that he doesn't understand it.
 
#48 ·
But Kiara's the one in my avatar icon. XD I relate to her more than Simba, anyways. I swear, it's Kiara. I made that avatar myself, or at least I cropped the scene and added words. Kiara makes me smile. :)
 
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#47 ·
I get told I worry, but I'm just considering the consequences. I don't think ENFPs can help imagining possible outcomes. I love to have fun or try new things but the ones who tell me not to worry are usually in-the-moment types who want to do something slightly naughty.

Also, I hear:
You have a great imagination.
You're very creative.
You kill me.
 
#51 ·
Come on ENFPs inspire me. I once met an ENFP on a plane and by the end of the trip I was ready to follow them to save the world. Your personality has such energy and passion it is contagious. So wake the rest of us up and lets go save someone or something and make this place better.

Love you guys :blushed:
 
#52 ·
Awww. Thanks for the compliment and inspiration to go out and inspire people. And I thought you were just a Scientist. XD

I haven't had the chance to inspire anyone today because I've slept in ad have awakened to find one room mate at work and the other at school. I don't like my days off very much. But when I see another person, I will inspire them to the best of my ability! :D


(Also, I don't think what you typed is often said to an ENFP. It usually goes along the lines of "Woah, I'm so inspired now! Thanks for the idea. :)" But hey, everyone needs a little inspiration once in a while.)
 
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#56 ·
I find that when I open up to other close friends, they tend to open up and tell me their deepest, darkest secrets. I feel honored that they would consider telling me, but I think its due to the ENFP temperament. Any of you experienced that?
 
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I find that when I open up to other close friends, they tend to open up and tell me their deepest, darkest secrets. I feel honored that they would consider telling me, but I think its due to the ENFP temperament. Any of you experienced that?
Story of my life hahah
 
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#59 ·
Y'know, I often get a beat or two of resounding silence. Often followed by laughter (the good kind).

Best comment I ever got, though: "You'll either be a Nobel Prize winner, or an axe murderer."

I definitely get a lot of the "you worry too much."

I got a good group friends, though--I'll get on a roll and apologize for my internal censor being out to lunch, and they tell me to knock that off and lock the censor out a while.
 
#60 ·
I get slot of negative and positive here are my favorites
Dude WTF ?!?!?!
F••• it I'm down now!
Dude mismatching socks rly?
Hey did you drink all the coffee?
Dude you have more energy then a nuclear power plant (as told by a ISTJ)
Are you high?
Are you drunk?
Hangover much?
Wow it weird
Creeper
****
Dude you inspired me.
I don't understand your complex thought process maybe your just retarded.
Dude are you there? Reply"sorry was looking at a birdy"
How much crack did you smoke "I prefer it to be called Colombian white coffee grounds"
Wow that was the best time I've ever had (use your imagination)
Man you are soo unique!
 
#62 ·
The other day I was called an alternative hippie chick.

A common one for me has been, "Don't lose it!" For some odd reason my friends think I lose important things.

- How did you know?!
- You're insightful
- You're a mind reader
-You seem like an open minded person, so... (person proceeds to tell me something that's either shockingly not even a big deal and I can't believe they thought it was, or it is a deep dark secret, hehe.) Golly gosh, we really do get to know everyone's secrets... we're like secret collectors.
 
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