[Later Days]

I'm wondering if I can detect a pattern in the way we ENFPs date, or if it really is just random.
There has been a couple who haven't been typed and won't be listed (Or they lasted less than a week), but generally all my SOs and even exs were happy to take the MBTI test.

I've Dated:
- An ENTP: The description for a comparative relationship were dead-on. We've remained besties, but we always get on each other's nerves.
-An ENFJ: Terribly frustrating. Like an ENFP that won't let any real emotions out.
-An INTP: Interesting. Supposedly an iceberg, but in actuality total mushball.
-An ISTP: D'awww. I <3 my ISTP. They're ridiculous. I can't even explain my love for ISTPs in general. They're eternally fascinating. They all always look like they're thinking something crazily deep, but usually they aren't thinking a thing or about how something works. They're like a puzzle an ENFP can't figure out, but never grows frustrated by.

So what other types (Confirmed or assumed) have you dated, my fellow, and lovable, ENFPs?
What were your general interactions with said types?
Do you have a particularly favored type?

[Vanilambrozja]

Hahha:P

ENTP-Sometimes we looks like we were born to be together ,but sometimes like we competely don't fit to each other-And I can write long letter about that:P.

ESTJ??- First allegedly everything ok-he was nice and cute but later..He told me sth really hurt what burn our bridges.

Ohh (in summer long time ago).. xxTx- :P - weird!

ESFP- at primary school-We were friends from childchood and there wasn't none attraction!

And date or not date probably IxxJ?? -very caring and never let me down.

[Vanilambrozja]

Aaa ok and I think probably I was enchantment 3-4 years in probably ENFP or ENFJ- I don't know his type becouse he was like ENFP but not such weird:P

[cbelle]

-An ISTP: D'awww. I <3 my ISTP. They're ridiculous. I can't even explain my love for ISTPs in general. They're eternally fascinating. They all always look like they're thinking something crazily deep, but usually they aren't thinking a thing or about how something works. They're like a puzzle an ENFP can't figure out, but never grows frustrated by.

ISTP - Just beginning a relationship with one. He is ridiculously adorable, you are right! He is very challenging to me but I enjoy that. I hope my minor frustrations with him will fade out once we start becoming more comfortable expressing ourselves. (We're still so awkward and shy we can barely say more than "I really like talking to you," without blushing irresponsibly.)

INFJ - I really feel like he was what could have been a soul mate because of how romantic we both were. However, his lack of self-esteem prodded him to tear down both his and my self-image at the same time. His fear of me being imperfect ended up separating us. (He was convinced I wasn't perfect. :P) Besides, who wants a guy who tells you that you have to be as skinny as Keira Knightly to be pretty?

[Later Days]

ISTP - Just beginning a relationship with one. He is ridiculously adorable, you are right! He is very challenging to me but I enjoy that. I hope my minor frustrations with him will fade out once we start becoming more comfortable expressing ourselves. (We're still so awkward and shy we can barely say more than "I really like talking to you," without blushing irresponsibly.)

INFJ - I really feel like he was what could have been a soul mate because of how romantic we both were. However, his lack of self-esteem prodded him to tear down both his and my self-image at the same time. His fear of me being imperfect ended up separating us. (He was convinced I wasn't perfect. :P) Besides, who wants a guy who tells you that you have to be as skinny as Keira Knightly to be pretty?

I love that phase. It's possibly the cutest thing ever watching an ISTP flustered with sweet emotions. The phase actually really never seems to end. They will still blush and be flustered at every little sweet thing they think. I've found that if you have frustrations with the ISTP, it's the best thing to tell them. They really do like making things better.

As for your INFJ, you're beautiful! INFJs can be really critical (My dad is one), especially ones with low self-esteem. You just have to suck it up and tell them to stop and you're not going to put up with them tearing you down, My dad and I's relationship really improved after I stopped letting him get to me.

[cbelle]

I love that phase. It's possibly the cutest thing ever watching an ISTP flustered with sweet emotions. The phase actually really never seems to end. They will still blush and be flustered at every little sweet thing they think. I've found that if you have frustrations with the ISTP, it's the best thing to tell them. They really do like making things better.

As for your INFJ, you're beautiful! INFJs can be really critical (My dad is one), especially ones with low self-esteem. You just have to suck it up and tell them to stop and you're not going to put up with them tearing you down, My dad and I's relationship really improved after I stopped letting him get to me.

Oh wow, thanks for the tip about ISTPs getting flustered with romantic things, that has always been one of my FAVORITEST ever characteristics of the kind of guy I like. Yeah, it's adorable, me and him. It feels like I'm 16 and I'm in love for the first time ever. Thanks girl

[Later Days]

Oh wow, thanks for the tip about ISTPs getting flustered with romantic things, that has always been one of my FAVORITEST ever characteristics of the kind of guy I like. Yeah, it's adorable, me and him. It feels like I'm 16 and I'm in love for the first time ever. Thanks girl

No problem, and good luck!

[Essay]

ISFJ and INFJ. The first was a horrible match. She was constantly jealous of everything I did and never came close to understanding me. The second was awesome times infinity.

[Later Days]

ISFJ and INFJ. The first was a horrible match. She was constantly jealous of everything I did and never came close to understanding me. The second was awesome times infinity.

My INTP was like that. He didn't even like me hanging out with my best friend who is a gay guy. He wanted me to himself, and it was horrible and oppressive.

[energeticelephant]

ENFJ, INFJ, ENTP, INTJ

Haha...that's a lotta Js! The ENFJ was my best friend and our stint in relationship land was short-lived. We should have just stayed best friends, but you know, we were young and new at these things.

The INFJ was my longest and most turbulent (but still great) relationship. He had a lot of mental problems. Oh goodness...there was a lot about this one that was fantastic and a lot about it that was absolutely terrible.

ENTP...my first jump into NT land. He was much older than me. We had great surface chemistry, but this definitely didn't last long at all.

The INTJ one was my best. I never felt like someone complimented me more by just being himself. It wasn't without it's conflicts and problems, but we both grew so much together and learned a lot about what it is to be in a mature, loving and balanced relationship.


And next? I can only wonder...