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This is a discussion on ENFP + INFJ = True Love? within the ENFP Forum - The Inspirers forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; As an INFJ, I have been told that my "ideal type" for dating, etc. is the ENFP. What are your ...

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    INFJ - The Protectors

    ENFP + INFJ = True Love?

    As an INFJ, I have been told that my "ideal type" for dating, etc. is the ENFP.

    What are your thoughts on this? Are there any ENFP's out there that have had good/bad/hilarious experiences being with an INFJ?

    I really want to hear it from your perspective, I mean, are you equipped to deal with my frequent existential crises, mysterious inner workings, and vaguely invasive ability to pick your thoughts without realizing that I'm doing it? Is an ENFP naturally better at dealing with this sort of thing?



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    INTP - The Thinkers

    I've never had a connection like I do with my ENFP friend. We've known each other for 5 years, she moved away for awhile and has just came back into my life again. The other night we were eating at a restaurant with some friends. Sitting across the table from each other. Most of the night we just looked into each others eyes not saying a word. And she is ALWAYS talkative but for about 3 minutes we both shut up and we just... were. I'm not too sure of my personality type but i think its INxJ.

    Anyway...

    Things are going smooth as of right now.

    We've talked about dating and I believe it will be in our near future.

    But I can say I do love her and I think INxJ's and ENFP's make awesome teams.


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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    INFJ's are magical.
    all those qualities you mentioned are only attractive to me.. instant attraction, the only INFJ i've met i was drawn to her and we fancied each other pretty much straight away. that sense of mystery is hot, and i can't explain it properly but we were just so similar on some level, even though on the outside we were quite different.
    we clicked like crazy as well, it's so strange feeling so comfortable with someone literally from "hi".

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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    My INFJ-ex and I, yeah, that was true love. It showed me exactly why they call us the Inspirers and them the Protectors. I knew her beforehand as being a very private person, and I knew that it was something special when she excitedly shared just about everything that came to her mind with me. I felt so privileged. She was so interesting to listen to, and there was no end to her depth. That said, I couldn't shut up around her either. We both wanted to teach each other so much, and it seemed like we'd never run out of material. It was just so mutually beneficial of a relationship. I helped her refine her craft and land her dream job, and she helped me through the toughest episode of my life, and made me wiser than I ever could have anticipated.

    Other INFJs too. Something between us just makes conversation flow deep.

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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts ....I have never had the privilege of being involved with an INFJ but I would love to run interference with one at some point in the future...the dynamic is very appealing!
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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    The first guy I ever loved was an INFJ. Our relationship was a terrific one in some aspects and a terrible one in others. He would call me perfect and treated me like my poop didn't smell, which was something that really stressed me out. I just wanted him to view me as a normal human being, capable of making mistakes. I got stressed because I knew my reality wouldn't live up to the fantasy in his head in the long run. I didn't want to have to be responsible for "letting him down" when he finally came to terms with reality (which is exactly what happened and he dumped me for it).

    But we were quite compatible in a lot of other ways. We "got" each other in ways that most of our peers at the time didn't. We had the same sense of humour and similar interests...which went a long way.
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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Quote Originally Posted by energeticelephant View Post
    The first guy I ever loved was an INFJ. Our relationship was a terrific one in some aspects and a terrible one in others. He would call me perfect and treated me like my poop didn't smell, which was something that really stressed me out. I just wanted him to view me as a normal human being, capable of making mistakes. I got stressed because I knew my reality wouldn't live up to the fantasy in his head in the long run. I didn't want to have to be responsible for "letting him down" when he finally came to terms with reality (which is exactly what happened and he dumped me for it).

    But we were quite compatible in a lot of other ways. We "got" each other in ways that most of our peers at the time didn't. We had the same sense of humour and similar interests...which went a long way.
    Yeah, that sort of fantasy seems consistent in the INFJs I've met. I spotted it from the start with my ex, and realized I could have a lot of fun with it. For the first little while, I played to it just like I felt she'd want me to. However, once we were more settled, I guess I got a little tired of it and distracted by my own down-to-earth values. I started to test her fantasy with suggestions of my own, but it was clear that she wasn't going to budge. So, to me, it became another cute, lovable feature---like an aptly-placed mole. Even if it was a slight mark of distance between us, it never was a bad thing.
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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    When I first met my boyfriend, he tested as INFJ. Lately, he tests as INFP.

    Either way, it's great. :) The level of comfort, and mystery, and something else that I can't *quite* identify is just fantastic. :D

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    INFJ - The Protectors

    Wow, after all of the positive feedback I think I need to go and snag myself an ENFP.

    It'll be great, you inspire and I'll protect. ^_^
    Last edited by Eternal Session; 07-17-2010 at 12:44 AM. Reason: Grammatical error xD
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    INFJ - The Protectors

    Here's what to expect when dating an ENFP:



    Me: :*

    Him: :* i love you

    Me:
    I love you more <3

    Him:
    NEEEEEEEEEEVVVVAAAAAARRRRR!!!!!!!!!!! *flips the table*

    Me:
    lool *drop kicks you* hiiyah!

    Him:
    BLOCKED! SUPER NINJA PUNCH! followed by a KARATE CHOP!

    Me:
    KICK BLOCKED! TIGER FIST and... the KISS.. of DEATH :************
    Me: DIEEEE!!! *HUGS*

    Him:
    oooo she is nimble like a gazelle!
    Him: she must have been trained by the princess in the north!
    Him: they have been known for lightning fast capabilities
    Him: But SHE IS NO MATCH FOR MY SPINNING DAGGERS EDGE STRIKE!

    Me:
    NOES! I AM SUPERIOR to all your tricks HEEYAH!

    Him:
    XD i love you
    Him: come cuddle with me my ninja gf
    Him: :*

    Me:
    *cuddles* I loves you too... my ninja bf.

    Him:
    HIIYA QUICK WHILE SHES DISTRACTED I STRIKE

    Me:
    kissssssssssssssss of death :*** yah! too late, I won

    Him:
    THE TICKLE FURRRRYYY it makes anyone squeel till they pass out
    Him: :* hahahaha alrighty im off to bed, that was fun

    Me:
    okay!

    Him:
    so tirred..

    Me:
    gaaaniighttt :*

    Him:
    :************************************************* *******

    Him:
    i win!~

    He is now Offline.
    Last edited by Ethanol; 07-01-2012 at 03:37 AM.
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