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This is a discussion on Enemies = 0 within the ENFP Forum - The Inspirers forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; I'm wondering how high your guy's likability is? I know two other ENFPs well and both of them and myself ...

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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Enemies = 0

    I'm wondering how high your guy's likability is? I know two other ENFPs well and both of them and myself have absolutely nobody that doesn't like us or is out to "get us." It seems like our quirkiness and social skills have won the day.

    Do you also find you get along with everyone exceptionally well or do you have big issues with some people?

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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    definitely. although being blatently inconsiderate to others is hard to forgive, or hurting the defenseless is a big tiff of mine. other than these, there aren't really any reasons why i would disagree with someone.

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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    I definitely play well with others. No enemies in life. I just wouldn't want to be in the same room as a particular ex of mine, but otherwise I don't think anybody's out to get me.

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    ENTP - The Visionaries

    I'm an ENTP, and I don't have people that I hate all the time. If someone is acting like a jackass to me I could swear I'll use my links with Al-Qaeda, the Mossad, James Bond, cool ninjas, and Matthew Perry to annihilate him, but, 1 second after he's acting nice, and I immediately drop those feelings. It's really weird and has hurt me in the past quite a few times.
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    I don't have enemies. I just have people who think I'm a freak. But I know of no one who actively dislikes me xD

    I always treat people like they're my BESTEST FRIEND EVARRR which is probably why most of them like me. Or are freaked out. Lol!
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    ENTJ - The Executives

    I dont have any enemies, but if I dont like someone or they have done me wrong in some way but apologize.. I usually just drop the grudge immediately. No point in holding it all in forever.

    Although I tend not to forget. I think thats just a cautionary method to know how far I can throw them. I dont like to be let down by people because I try not to let others down.

    Do I usually get along with others?
    I tend to like a quality in everyone. I try and give the benefit of the doubt. If I notice cumulatively they have been pissing me off I generally tend to keep them at arms length. If it goes further than that Ill still be patient. It takes a lot of shoving to get me to be blatantly be angry at someone.

    This thread reminds me of a friend of mine who has lots of people like her but she doesnt really like any of them, her quote on facebook is "Doesnt mean that much to me to mean that much to you". Ouch.
    Last edited by RhoAlphaNuAlpha; 06-05-2010 at 07:30 PM. Reason: Forgot to add stuff
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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    I have issues with people, but those people don't tend to have issues with me. :P
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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    I used to have people who saw me as an enemy when I was in school because I was nice and easy to be made a target of. I hate hurting people even in fights I could win. So I usually learned to avoid people, especially people who could exploit my being vulnerable. Especially since I enjoyed being vulnerable~ which kind of meant I enjoyed being alone... opening up only to those who approached me. Not many~ but the ones that did were worth the wait. <3

    I think ENFP's have many potential enemies out there, we just don't always see them because we may miss seeing them for what they truly are until they hurt us.

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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    I don't have any enemies that I know of. I don't have any issues with anyone. but in the past people had issues with me- which was not my fault but their. Only person I have issue with is my father.

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    In high school I had a lot of enemies--not that I did anything to them. I was so shocked to find out how much they hated me because I had no idea they did. But my guy ENFP friends are non-threatening and that's probably why they have no enemies and everyone likes them. My boyfriends are never jealous of my ENFP guy friends despite any real facts on the matter.
    There are some people who genuinely annoy me so much sometimes. Mostly this happens when they view me as an enemy and cock block me and I think they are dumb and self-centered. But I have developed tactics to over come the jealousy of other women. (Which I believe is their problem and why they don't like me because I am nice and not trying to steal their boyfriends despite what they might think). The primary tactic is to try to open up to them to show them how nice I am. But they don't really care most of the time and turns out are pretty boring people so who cares.
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