[belvapark]

I know they say we are most compatible with INFJs or even a complete opposite, but what do you think on the topic of ENFPs in a relationship? What are the possibilities/impossibilities?

I dated another ENFP and discovered we balanced each other out because of our (ENFPs) ability to make up for lack in someone elses personality. Say, I was sad, he was optimistic; I was over the top, he was mellow; and so on. But at the same time, the mood swings were horrendous...

Any similar experiences? Good? Or is it all a disaster?!

[Later Days]

I've really never pursued another ENFP. I find the delightful, and often one of my friends turns out to be an ENFP/INfP. Despite this, I think we both need someone slightly more structured for a romantic relationship. The lust is there, but I think we both usually know that neither of us is really emotionally right for such a roller coaster relationship.

[Deja Vu]

It won't work. Do not pursue.

[Rube]

A healthy relationship can develop between two well-developed members of any type combination. Don't rule someone out because of their type.

[Moby]

In (vast) general, I don't believe ENFP-ENFP can work. Lust? Yes, but we naturally search for opposites, or complimentary people. I myself am not attracted to ENFPs. They make good friends, not even great friends (since again, differences help compliment and forge a deeper bond) but I think it's very unlikely I would be attracted to an ENFP and I've met some very attractive ones. INFP is a different story...

[Rube]

Oh my god, nothing is more attractive than a cute, shy INFP girl smiling at you.

[Linnifae]

I have never been attracted to an ENFP.

I'm always attracted to sensors. Being confused as heck turns me on.

[MissyMaroon]

I honestly don't really know any confirmed ENFPs in my life, nor have I been attracted to any that might have seemed the type.

I prefer introverts anyways.

[Anderson Chaves]

I never date an ENFP, as well, but I guess it will be kind of fun and inspiring (not a surprise xP), so I guess it can do well. =]
However, what Moby says it's true, people exactly the same to each other aren't that so atractive... And I could perceive that the Introverted ones are more atractive to us ENFPs... Kinda curious... But, I believe in the ENFP/ENFP great match!

[pinkrasputin]

Haha. My ENFP guy friend and I know that at the end of time, if we don't find true love on the outside, we will be there wiping each other's asses right before our death. I will love him forever. Starting at age 70 and thereafter, we will finally start to admit it. NO ONE gets my back like a fellow ENFP.