This is a discussion on Relationship vision within the ENFP Forum - The Inspirers forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; Do any of you ENFP's ever see two people and in your head you just think... this isn't going to ...
Do any of you ENFP's ever see two people and in your head you just think...
this isn't going to work out...
maybe you don't say anything...
because it would be awkward, but you still know... and they still break up...
unless someone gets preggo!
whoops.
time for marriage!
jk on the last part.
yup i do n um lol the last part is true in some cases...btw i also think the opposite like i see 2 people n i say 2 my self wow they r going to be together 4 a long time....O.O n BTW im intimidated by a chick i want to go out with right now n it makes me just challenge her 2 see who's better at certain things lol instead of actual talking 2 her....gah.
Yeah... and sometimes those thoughts make me feel guilty. ^^;; When two people I know (or if I know at least one of the people) start a romantic relationship together, after I'm able to observe them for at least a little bit, I can usually determine whether or not the relationship is going to work out. But I always keep these thoughts inside my head.
There have been a few times here and there when I thought it WOULD work out between people and it didn't, though. These have always been big, very sad surprises. =\
I have the same thing. I was actually extremely happy this girl broke up with this guy. I'm not interested in the girl personally, but I just hated him, and I knew it wouldn't work out. (Smart, relatively clean girl going out with dumb, frequently-incarcerated guy... Um, yeah... Who doesn't see that coming?) Anyway, it was the first time I was ever excited about knowing how a relationship would go that didn't involve me.
I'm also like a matchmaker too though. I can totally tell when people WILL work or at the very least, that they will be attracted to each other. I think I've set up 2-3 legitimate couples, at minimum, in my life.
Yes, I've done that. Sometimes i actually tell the person that i foreseen it not working out- not strangers but friends. I agree with Moby, I can play the role of matchmaker too.Originally Posted by GreenCoyote
I do, and I have even foreseen the end of my relationships at the very beginning of them. Not exactly what would happen, but the general forces that would break us apart and the feeling that would be there. One ex especially, who I was with on and off for 6 years. We were good friends, and when we first got together I had this one night when I was really depressed because I could see and feel very clearly the romantic aspect ruining everything good we had and losing our great bond because we tried. Sure enough, years later I finally accepted that we're amazing as friends but in a relationship we bring out the worst in each other to an almost scary extent.
Since I'm young and most of my friends are young, most of our relationships at the moment won't work out -- that makes it especially awesome when I see two people together and know that they really should be. It's sort of a blessing and a curse. Sometimes I'd just like to have no foresight, to be optimistic and able to be happy about things until they end. If it's going to hurt in the end regardless, why not enjoy the ride the best you can?
I keep my mouth shut about whatever I foresee unless I'm asked. My friends and even friends of friends know to come to me when they want the brutally honest insight though.
Yes. I also seem to notice often when friends or acquaintances meet someone they don't quite know at the time and knowing that they would be wonderful matches for each other. I smile when that happens. :) I'm just wondering if I should point it out to them and find some way for the two to talk more... or should I keep it to myself?
I don't usually see how long something will last between people, but sometimes I do notice what makes them go apart eventually. A friend of mine and another female friend of me have tried something, but I knew for sure the boy just wouldn't understand the girl. She is outrageously active and positive, but I've picked up her problems behind it, and how I might hinted to him about it (there's more behind her, don't be fooled), he just didn't notice. Afterwards he said to me, both wasted on holiday: "You know, she, she thínks too much..."
But mostly, I see that all will work out just fine
By the way, The Dreamer, you are nothing short of uncomprehensible. I'm not native English, so it looks like some sort of slang to me
Yeah, why not! You can never know if it's really true, but you can subtly create the opportunity to let them know each other....
...
You'll see what happens.
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