There have been similar threads on other forums regarding fashion. I was wondering how ENFPs choose the clothes they wear? What do they say about you? Do you use clothing as a means to express yourself? Does your dress shift depending on different social circles you entertain?
My average daily wear does actually speak about who I am. I want my outsides to reflect my insides. However, I am always cognizant of my surroundings and different social "vibes".
My overall vibe, despite any specific group is "sexy yet classy".
For the most part, going out right now while it's cold I might have a "cuddly" sweater balanced with a mini skirt:
In mild weather if you were to see me pick up a few things at the store, you might find me like this. Heels are important to me as I am not that tall.
On a daily basis I try to stay "casual" and I love my Abercrombie jeans:
If I were to meet your mom I'd be:
Still Abercrombie. Don't hate.
Last but not least. If you were to take me to Opera or theater performance I might resemble:
I believe our outsides reflect our insides. I also believe that "we dress the part" before we become it. I choose a role in society that I want to play. It is up to me to convince the society that I am worthy of that role. How do you feel?
Topless, adorable missred. :') Especially if you've blurted out to everybody how beautiful they are!
I don't know why, but an inordinate number of men have taken their shirts off around me, in wierd places. Like the grocery store. Or in a line before a concert. Or in my front yard. Or at work. But to be fair, I took mine off at work once, but only after telling everyone to leave because a bee flew up my shirt
I used to think this was bizarre, but maybe men just know we like them, so they enjoy showing off. As I'm fake protesting with, "Ahhh! What are you doing?!" They'll laugh and say, "Aww come on. You of all people should have no problem with this. Here: Feel this." (like rock hard abs or biceps.)
I don't even take a step down the road of 'why me of all people?'
Cuz I know. :')
Topless, adorable missred. :') Especially if you've blurted out to everybody how beautiful they are!
I don't know why, but an inordinate number of men have taken their shirts off around me, in wierd places. Like the grocery store. Or in a line before a concert. Or in my front yard. Or at work. But to be fair, I took mine off at work once, but only after telling everyone to leave because a bee flew up my shirt
I used to think this was bizarre, but maybe men just know we like them, so they enjoy showing off. As I'm fake protesting with, "Ahhh! What are you doing?!" They'll laugh and say, "Aww come on. You of all people should have no problem with this. Here: Feel this." (like rock hard abs or biceps.)
I don't even take a step down the road of 'why me of all people?'
Cuz I know. :')
I feel like we may be sisters or something....<3
in high school my friends used to joke that my super power was to somehow remove the shirts off every guy near me without touching them. :wink:
of course i let them know im appreciating the view....
of course that super power gets awkward at funerals and such...
of course i squel with glee everytime..
as rippled as some of my friends may be they are all ungodly pale so i do get to make a fair amount of jokes about my eyes burning.
The beautiful thing I find here is that ENFP men feel like my long lost brothers and ENFP women, like my sisters. That's hilarious about the superpower!~ Is it possible ENFP girls are born with a secret shirt removal vibe?
We must tell know one of this, missred: The implications are staggering.
oh see i was thinking along the lines of we should tell everyone we know...
i think you may know how to handle super powers a bit better than me...
good thing neither of us have exposure to excessive radiation...the results could be..amazing... wait... where can i find some nuclear waste??????
i can only imagine what this might do in the hands of a super villain..like myself
We are so off track in this thread. Just so I can feel like I'm doing good besides removing the shirts of male bystanders without batting an eyelash, I will say, "I like knee high socks and I love patterned tights, but my legs are chubby, so I don't wear patterened tights. But I like them."
I have so much fun here. And I just had several x-rays at the dentist so I think I've got a shot at even greater powers today.
We are so off track in this thread. Just so I can feel like I'm doing good besides removing the shirts of male bystanders with out batting an eyelash, I will say, "I like knee high socks and I love patterned tights, but my legs are chubby, so I don't wear patterened tights. But I like them."
I have so much fun here. And I just had several x-rays at the dentist so I think I've got a shot at even greater powers today.
Lol. You guys have been cracking me up with your last posts! Yes, I do think we have shirt removing power. Dear god, I thought it was just me. That is just too funny. That is not off the topic. Shirtless is a fashion. And why are they always doing it around us? I swear I have asked so many other men about this!
Haha. I think guys like to show off around me. They do it all the time... because I appreciate it. They can tell I appreciate everything... nature, love, emotions, thoughts, places. I let them know this and they just can't wait for the next opportunity to make me laugh or "squeal with glee" (like you said, missred).
We make men feel amazing and special and soooo manly. They love this.
Hence they remove their shirts to impress us even further... or I will remove the shirt for them. Or their jeans. Removing clothing in creative ways is a favorite pasttime.
role playing sexy goth is a semi regular occurance for me. i think i may even have that necklace. :happy:
betsey johnson makes the best black dresses and i am lucky enough to own a few.
everything goes well with above the knee blackk leather boots.
i am also a big fan of hair flowers.
its a good thing enfps are rare. if their were too many of us the world would go topless
role playing sexy goth is a semi regular occurance for me. i think i may even have that necklace. :happy:
betsey johnson makes the best black dresses and i am lucky enough to own a few.
everything goes well with above the knee blackk leather boots.
i am also a big fan of hair flowers. its a good thing enfps are rare. if their were too many of us the world would go topless
Most important thing to me is to have my own style and to not neccesarily wear what everyone else wears...just to be myself! I sometimes wear things the way no one else really does, and I'm fine with that...I love an earthy, ethereal, kinda gypsyish and bohemian feel...I also love colors
i always wear clothes that fits to my mood or the place i'm going.. i can be comfortable in everything if i think i look good in it and if clothes that i wear represent me and my peronality
i have various style, i like dresses a lot, i can't live without good pair of jeans (or track suit) and i always mix it up with some rock chic
i always try to have unique style but not extreme..
I need my clothes to represent me personally as well. You have great style. Thank you for showing such a diversity. I think I am obsessing over your belt. Nice...
Thank you so much i think you are gorgeou too.. you have beautiful eyes (i would kill for blue-green eyes lol) and i definitely like your style.. specialy the last picture in jeans
I don't pay all that much worth to fashion as such, although I do tend to find my wardrobe gravitates towards earthy greens, casual trousers and jeans, which is pretty reflective of my personality I suppose.
Then when I have to smarten up a bit I either go classic or slightly gothic/new romantic (only hints, I left that phase behind long ago).
I do find that I do occassionally end up with 'costumes' though, like themed outfits and when I wear one my whole demeanor changes to suit the outfit; it's one of my pet pleasures actually, to sample styles. I suppose thats like most other things in life, I want to try it all but wont commit to one.
Hair has always been my most important consideration appearance wise to me; I've always been fascinated with doing peoples hair in different styles since I was a child. Probably again due to the whole 'dressing up' aspect of it. I prefer my hair to be medium length, short hair bores me because it's so static and long hair I find becomes a drag. I have naturally curly hair so I just wear it like that most of the time; it has however been dyed every colour under the sun and has changed about every three months since I was 16 (I'm now 22).
My taste in clothes changes with my mood - constantly. I might look fantastic 4 days out of the week and then look sloppy for the rest. Sometimes I'm bohemian, other times classic or retro or demure, rocker, country, dowdy. I look better with jewel tones, but I have a lot of black and earth tones in my wardrobe. I love to dress up and wear heals, but I'm awful at picking out my own shoes and accessories, so I beg, borrow or steal from friends and family. Hair: The beauty of being a black girl - I can easily change my hair style all the time!
Sometimes when I'm feeling like crap I'll try to dress up as much as possible to compensate.
I don't have great pics of my clothes, but I you can see my range of hairstyles!
Sixties Mod Party
Short Hair (and several pounds heavier!)
Chillin' and watchin the sunrise with my big a** afro.
Little Afro
Just hanging out with the girls - And my friends. (Honestly her boobs are always hanging out of some top!! Gotta love her!
I am prone to extremes short short hair or long long hair, platinum blonde or jet black. knee high boot or flip flops, flats or high high heels, short skirts or maxi dress/ skirts i hate clothes that fit closely around my neck or wrist but love form fitting clothing skinny jeans or leggings and figure hugging tees or tanks tunics............. masculine motorcycle cut jackets or lady like trench coats.... .........love big dangling artsy or hoop earrings but don't wear them with my eye glasses if i am wearing my contacts i love huge sunglasses..... love big huge statment cocktail rings but no other jewlery allways dark red purple blue or black nail polish on short well kept nails also i am a sucker for crazy thigh socks and pretty bight colored under wear and bras.....
My style is similar to your. Except I love colors. I wear a lot of black- only because I tend to sweat a lot. But I would prefer to wear color. I also, LOVE shoes. I collect shoes like it's art. I don't wear a lot of my shoes because they hurt my feet. But they are pretty to look at. My prefer footwear is vans and converses, I wear them everyday. I, too love maxi dresses. And I love boho and graphics tops. I love painting my nails. Sometimes I'll paint my nails the color of the rainbow. I think I'm rare for an enfp because I LOVE fashion-sometimes I follow some of the trends but try to be different which is hard.
I wear... alot of gray and black, maybe some faded blue occasionally. Dark-blue jeans, black socks, black or grey t-shirt, black or dark-grey shirt, grey shoes, black scarf to cover my face, black gloves, big black jacket, black... headpiece. And silver jewelry (armband and a necklace)
Me on a normal day. :bored:
THEN we have the days of summer, and shining light and delight! Then I like to dress in bleached, lush greens and bright reds, perhaps some blue too! This does not happen often, sadly. :mellow:
(reminds me I have to buy more bright clothes I can enjoy...)
as for shoes... I have 2 pairs. I use them until they literally fall apart. Then I buy a new, relatively cheap pair. And do the same with them.
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