"Kiss me if I'm wrong, but ENFPs like to make out more than other types!"

**Lilsnowy** · 02-03-2010 06:09 AM

I've been told that I'm too innocent because I think making out doesn't have to lead to sex. Maybe that's a typical trait for an ENFP, but making out is so intense --and affectionate-- I love it! If a man insists on pushing it to the next level, I wonder if he doesn't care about the woman so much as sex.

When I'm deeply attracted to someone or feel loved, kissing is fantastic and extremely pleasurable on it's own. And if I'm deeply attracted but not sure about the love part, kissing is fantastic and extremely pleasurable on it's own.

Which type likes to make out the most?

**GroovyShamrock** · 02-03-2010 06:24 AM

*kisses you* because you're wrong. ;-P

I looove kissing. But then maybe it's because I'm usually not too deeply introverted and I can be quite ENFP-ish at times?

**sheepsclothing** · 02-03-2010 06:37 AM

I agree! Kissing is so very strong even for just attraction and can stand on its own. Let's think about the vampire mythology, the deeply erotic connection made from kissing, albeit sometimes modified to the neck area. Seriously, this is a deep and abiding theme on society that points to the entire connection/giving one's self to another via kissing. Going further depends on so many factors, but with the kiss, the loss of control, the entire connection can jump like a spark right at that point.

**xackery** · 02-03-2010 06:44 AM

I'm *NT*, I love making out.. I think the things you say with cute little gestures and small talk with your lips intimately is what makes a relationship...

here's a poem I wrote this made me think of... enjoy!

fingers like to curl up naturally, why is this? They must really want to touch, even when dead they will curl up, and they curl to unfurl their truest desire.. to feel another one. To feel the little splashes of light along the brow of a loved one, how each and every lash, no matter how imperfect, still seems perfectly in place to the fingers. It's how the pores can be seen across the face if you look closely, no matter how much make up they may try to wear and hide their perfections.Their breath is the best, the breath of one you adore, a reassurance they are there, living, breathing, and able to sense you like you sense them this moment.. When eyes meet, it is so personal it can make your heart jump if not prepared. A great feeling though, to see those eyes peering up at you, trying to quickly guess what they may think. Are they happy? sad? nervous? upset? reading so earnestly... But when you think, they love you.. even if they do not, you can rest assured that one day they may truly do so, just because you take the first step. So why not, assume, if someone is so close, if they wish to be with you near enough that they would allow them to be exposed to you in a docile state such as this, let them think of you as a loved one and taste their lips against your skin.. embrace the feelings, if you are allowed such a thing, no repercussions to what this brings... kiss with a fervor that they know you are not going anywhere, any time...

**Lilsnowy** · 02-03-2010 07:09 AM

Wow! You all make my day. Kissing is one of my favorite subjects and consuming pastimes.
Another thread asked what do you do if you're proven wrong...! Well, you all know what we do in this thread!

**Lilsnowy** · 02-03-2010 07:18 AM

post repeated

**Arioche** · 02-03-2010 07:21 AM

If kissing/making out = leading to sex, I'll be in big trouble by now.

**sheepsclothing** · 02-03-2010 05:12 PM

That's pretty good! In fact, we all need to remember the joy of making out without it just being foreplay. I mean, why does everything have to be so serious and rigid?!

**Ben** · 02-03-2010 05:15 PM

I have no experience, but I think kissing the right person would feel great.

And we must both be naive, Lilsnowy. I don't really think making out has to lead to sex, either.

**sheepsclothing** · 02-03-2010 05:38 PM

Originally Posted by Ben

I have no experience, but I think kissing the right person would feel great.

And we must both be naive, Lilsnowy. I don't really think making out has to lead to sex, either.

Ben, you are NOT naive at all. It is very refreshing! People rush into everything and, in doing so, miss so much...

In fact Ben, you are SO right...kissing the right person is great and it can be just that. There is no 2nd first time for anything, so savor the knowledge you gain here and be smarter than the rest of the world.