I think sometimes we as ENFPs are really humble (a good thing) but we also need to recognize our talents or attributes.
I feel like I'm pretty charming, the books/media on ENFPs tell me I'm supposed to be one, if not the most, charming amongst all the types: but do YOU personally feel that you are charming? You can get what you want out of people based on enthusiastic speech or action that makes people WANT to give you what YOU want? Not an arrogant "pat yourself on the back time" just being honest about one of our good qualities.
Yes, I feel that way 100%. How about you? If not, why? If so, how does it manifest?