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This is a discussion on Rigid ENFP within the ENFP Forum - The Inspirers forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; Originally Posted by TheRamona369 What I notice is that one can change overtime especially when getting to a healthier state. ...
What I'm trying to understand is how your leading type could be a 7, or even if it were a 4 or a 1, how are you an ENFP???.
I'm either 8 or 1 for my gut instincts.
So the bottom line of my instincts is that.
I want certain things out of life but I don't want to go out in grab it and risk losing it. I'm not naturally confident, decisive, controlling nor judgmental to the point of brashness. I'm willful when I'm passionate about something like weight lifting, art, dancing and ect. I'm talkative to some ppl that I know. Manipulative half the times self-deceptive. I like to introspect. I love to lead the conversation when I'm in my comfort zone. I have no problem cutting off a friends that in my small circle of 2 friends. Emotionally cutting off ppl is my strong self defense mechanism other than sublimation. I would think that type 8s wouldn't have a hard time saying how they felt I use to.
I could be a type 8 because I desperately want to love ppl and at the sametime fear loving ppl because I don't want to be controlled by ppl Idk somewhat of an extremist/reformer when it comes to certain things, I could be a type 1 because I'm pretty tactful and repressive.
Last edited by Sherod 88; 07-20-2012 at 10:14 AM.
Nor the tri type concept.... I need to read up on something a lil more xD.