[Sherod 88]

What I notice is that one can change overtime especially when getting to a healthier state. Sometimes an unhealthy type can come off as another type.

Yeah I've been going thru a break up phase with this girl I dated for a 2 weeks, obsessed over for 3 months, dated for a month and continually till this day still feel the sting of the break up. I probably am a 741. Normally I'm quite active though, and stimulated. I use to be able to never sit down which is fucking stressful as an artist. Jumping all over the place with out being able to complete a picture I still have a hard time completing a picture. Even till this day I'm irresponsible constantly forgetting my key and ect. But the reason why I doubt I'm a 7 is that I'm not that optimistic, some can call me pessimistic at times, until my ex I never gave anyone my baggage but since then I've been passing it out like free samples at a food court. My attention span use to be very short but since I've been looking inside myself to find myself, and other means my concentration has improved.

[TheRamona369]

What I'm trying to understand is how your leading type could be a 7, or even if it were a 4 or a 1, how are you an ENFP???.

[Sherod 88]

What I'm trying to understand is how your leading type could be a 7, or even if it were a 4 or a 1, how are you an ENFP???.

Well I took a test on mypersonality.info and they pretty much gave me the enfp role. Though my whole life I consider myself to be quite logical but at the same time sensitive. I guess you guys said I have a developed extroverted thinking. I assume I act on my feelings because I rarely think out my objective activities out fully before starting something. In high school I was a quite guy that had a lot of friends I never stuck with just one friend inside high school till this day I only have 2 meaningful friends with a strong bond. When I dropped out of high school, I started pursing my dreams. I repressed my feelings of anxiety, loneliness, sadness, and anger to achieve my dreams which in fact made me a lot more insecure. I guess until last year I never knew how to hand my emotions they'd usually would overwhelm me. My underlying emotion for most things was fear though. Everyday I use to prey to God to be stronger and pray to fix the things I was insecure about. I can relate to type 8s I fear being manipulated or controlled which is why I'm always reading between the lines on what's being said but at the same time I was never naturally confident. I can't relate to type 9 going with the flowness because I never accept the status quo as if I feel bad for not being active in a certain direction, and I can relate to type 1 judgmental nature because in back when I was with my ex I use to condemn ppl based on other ppl's judgement. The only reason why I could be an 8 or 1 is that I know I have alot of dormant anger. I remember almost hitting my girlfriend's mom because she was teasing me pretending to take her away but that's the only situation I've been into like that. I've only been in 2 1/2 fights (which I won woot woot). My whole life I've been in a sublimation stage trying to prove myself(I guess to my core type 1 mother) that I'm worth of her acceptance n love. My mother is a tyrant but its okay.


I'm either 8 or 1 for my gut instincts.
So the bottom line of my instincts is that.
I want certain things out of life but I don't want to go out in grab it and risk losing it. I'm not naturally confident, decisive, controlling nor judgmental to the point of brashness. I'm willful when I'm passionate about something like weight lifting, art, dancing and ect. I'm talkative to some ppl that I know. Manipulative half the times self-deceptive. I like to introspect. I love to lead the conversation when I'm in my comfort zone. I have no problem cutting off a friends that in my small circle of 2 friends. Emotionally cutting off ppl is my strong self defense mechanism other than sublimation. I would think that type 8s wouldn't have a hard time saying how they felt I use to.
I could be a type 8 because I desperately want to love ppl and at the sametime fear loving ppl because I don't want to be controlled by ppl Idk somewhat of an extremist/reformer when it comes to certain things, I could be a type 1 because I'm pretty tactful and repressive.

[Sherod 88]

What I'm trying to understand is how your leading type could be a 7, or even if it were a 4 or a 1, how are you an ENFP???.

But also I'm kinda confused on the wings concept why does it even exist. Does it mean certain types were raised similar why isn't there like a 4w9 wings lol.

[Sherod 88]

Nor the tri type concept.... I need to read up on something a lil more xD.