Well, speaking from experience, my first true relationship ended up being over the internet. This was many years ago back when I was... I believe 14? I'm 23 now. For me, the distance didn't matter. All that mattered to me was getting to talk to her and spend time with her. We talked for hours almost every single day. As we grew closer, we started to talk on the phone and have Skype video calls.
In my case, years later, I still wouldn't mind the prospect of having a long distance relationship again. Sure we both often thought about the day when we could be with each other in real life, and how special that day would be, but what always mattered the most to me was how our personalities seemingly meshed perfectly and how she made me felt then. It was worth waiting all the time in the world.
One hugely important thing for me in my case was knowing that I was always cared for and that nothing was between us. That constant reassurance seemed to come naturally, and for me, it meant the world to know that. I've always been good at reading people. If I get the feeling that someone else is no longer as invested as I am, I ponder it. And that has made me unsure and a little anxious if something might have changed. Just be sure it's understood you do need your alone time. And while you may not want to talk about everything on your mind, allowing us to reassure you makes us feel
very happy that you trusted us with such delicate thoughts and just as happy that we could make you feel better. That's always brought me even closer to someone.
Depending on the ENFP, they may be incredibly creative and may need their own separate time for ther creative hobbies or maybe just to be alone too. I, myself am quite introverted even though I've come to discover I'm still by all means an ENFP. It's important to give them space too if you sense that. It doesn't mean we care any less about you or our relationship. It just means that sometimes, we need some off-time too. I think you probably understand what I mean.
As for things to make it more enjoyable?... Hmmmm.... Personally, if it were me (which I mean... that's the only experience I've been talking from so far :laughing
... I love watching a movie online with someone. To me, it's a way to bond over something you both like and can actively share. Both people pressing play at the same time watching it while in a Skype call (just audio) and talking about it as if you're actually almost both there next to each other. I love that so much.
Interestingly enough, the first relationship I had was met through Runescape. A great amount of the time we spent together at first was on Runescape. We had avatars that could move and represent us and we could travel places together, explore and actually "see" each other through these characters we played as. And maybe it's odd, but it was almost like the next best thing to actually being with each other. I think that was a large part of what also made up for us not truly being side by side -- getting to experience things together while not actually being together.
I didn't realize it then, but looking back on those days long gone, things like these are what made that relationship so special.