I am an ESTJ, and I really struggle with a coworker ENFP. She is always so emotional. (I am obviously straight forward) She takes everything personally. Can't make a decision at work, and always tries to seem to be the martyr. She is so "Woe is Me". She spends a great deal of her time trying to get people to like her, versus just doing her work.
How can I learn to get along better with her? I feel I walk on egg shells all day long! We have to work closely together, and I really have a hard time with this. I am willing to make changes, but I don't know if she is.