I've recently realized that I am a bit of a doormat when it comes to emotions. I love people, but I seem to be the person people go to with their problems and then ditch. Does anyone else feel the same way? Of course, this isn't true with everyone and I don't mean to complain. I have great friends, but sometimes I feel like they think I'm just supposed to take care of them. Shouldn't it be a two way street? When thinking about it, I realized I have hardly anyone I can go to with my darker feelings and have really listen to me. The majority of my friends have some form of clinical depression or are challenged in some way. I love them all to death but when you're spending all your time talking someone out of suicide or listening to family problems all the time, it gets a little exhausting. Sometimes I wish I had one or two friends who didn't mind giving me a chance to get a word in. Again, I really love my friends, and am happy to do those things for them, but I do have some problems of my own and it would be nice to have someone who didn't mind listening to me.
Ok rant, over. :) Any thoughts, advice? Is this just me, or do any other ENFPs struggle with similar problems?