Hey,
SO firstly I'll say I worry that I'm over thinking this all together but I met an ENFP on Tinder and we spent nearly every day messaging back and fourth. It was great. I'd recently left my husband, with two kids with me as well, and he was super understanding and praised me for being strong. I asked him out for a drink and a general 'yeah that should happen' was made. A few days later it felt like he was suggesting going for a drink and then added on that none of his friends were able to go out so I offered. At first he said no then came back quickly with yes. He didn't really make it clear at the beginning what he was looking for on tinder as he said he was looking to meet people and if it ended up turning romantic then so be it.
Anyhow I was a nervous mess when we met but completely blown away by him. He was lovely and filled my awkward silences. We said goodbye and that night I messaged him and said I probably shouldn't be on tinder anymore, was so embarrassed by how nervous I was. He said I was cute. (Sorry this is so long!) Two days after that I messaged him on instagram because we both followed each other on there, saying Id like to continue talking. We chatted on and off then my tafe course started and I got distracted and didn't talk to him for two weeks yet thought about him every day.
I feel like I stuffed it with him after deleting tinder BUT what has got me on here saying all this is, he continually likes only my selfies on instagram and after an innocent message the other night asking about local info he asked how I had been. I wonder if he is just a nice guy and I'm reading too much into it or if there is something there.
Tbh I'd really like for the first option so I can let this go :rolling:
SO firstly I'll say I worry that I'm over thinking this all together but I met an ENFP on Tinder and we spent nearly every day messaging back and fourth. It was great. I'd recently left my husband, with two kids with me as well, and he was super understanding and praised me for being strong. I asked him out for a drink and a general 'yeah that should happen' was made. A few days later it felt like he was suggesting going for a drink and then added on that none of his friends were able to go out so I offered. At first he said no then came back quickly with yes. He didn't really make it clear at the beginning what he was looking for on tinder as he said he was looking to meet people and if it ended up turning romantic then so be it.
Anyhow I was a nervous mess when we met but completely blown away by him. He was lovely and filled my awkward silences. We said goodbye and that night I messaged him and said I probably shouldn't be on tinder anymore, was so embarrassed by how nervous I was. He said I was cute. (Sorry this is so long!) Two days after that I messaged him on instagram because we both followed each other on there, saying Id like to continue talking. We chatted on and off then my tafe course started and I got distracted and didn't talk to him for two weeks yet thought about him every day.
I feel like I stuffed it with him after deleting tinder BUT what has got me on here saying all this is, he continually likes only my selfies on instagram and after an innocent message the other night asking about local info he asked how I had been. I wonder if he is just a nice guy and I'm reading too much into it or if there is something there.
Tbh I'd really like for the first option so I can let this go :rolling: