Okay, us ENFJ's know we have a shortfall and this comes out as a horrible form of the ISTP - our shadow. Has any fellow ENFJs done much shadow work? I feel like it's something that takes a lifetime and I find this facet incredibly interesting. Given also that I'm falling for an ISTP guy but boy, is this another thread by itself!
I feel like I'm really developing myself personally, although it's been a huge struggle but well worthwhile. A newbie here, would like to hear other people's talk on this, especially ISTPs.