Okay, let me start by saying hello to all of you lovely folks. So, hello there.
I have recently gotten into a relationship of sorts with a ENFJ guy. Nothing's wrong, at all. I adore him, and he actually asked me to marry him. That scares me a little bit though. I mean, I am all for settling down with someone, and for that someone to be him would be absolutely brilliant. I wonder though, if he's just jumping the gun. I don't want him to do something he'll regret. I mean, to be honest most of my family doesn't even know we're going out yet. I know I'm a very cautious person to begin with, I think it may just scare me because I don't understand how he can feel so strongly about something so quickly. I always take my time to decide what I feel for sure, but I have some trouble with understanding my emotions. I've gotten a whole lot better on that front since being with him.
I'm sorry for rambling. Anyway, I just want to know what other ENFJ's feel about the matter, is he being hasty, or is that just how most of you work? I know not everyone is the same, but 'ya know.