I'm not sure how familiar you are with the International Baccalaureate (IB) program, but it's a 2-year series of 6 areas of study for high school students seeking to take advanced/college-level courses. There is a required Theory of Knowledge class (thank goodness, because I discovered my interest in psychology in that class), and there's on unit on personality tests, at least for our school. Every student that goes through the class must take the MBTI test.
Recently, in discussing MBTI with some kids who have just been exposed to (and thus are still super excited about) it, I realized that I know a lot more ENFJs than the ratio of ENFJs to all times would suggest (lucky me!).
I know 2 male ENFJs and 4 female ENFJs, and I get along with all of them really really well. Of the guys, they are both among my five best friends, and for one I've been jokingly accused of having a bromance with . Of the girls, two are best friends with each other, and out of them, one I currently have a romantic interest in; I've gone out with the INFP best friend of another, who has said that she'd date me if we were at the same school (we're really close friends); and the last one is going out with one of my best friends, and I've been asked if we ever dated.
1) Do you seem to gravitate towards other ENFJs? A lot of people say that ENFJs are hard to find, but I seem to have an easy time at it, and make friends with them easily, and the friendships are really strong.
2) Have you had romantic inclinations towards another ENFJ? If so, how did it go? If not, do you think it would work?
EDIT: Sorry my syntax was really confusing.