[thehigher]

As an ENFJ:

Pros: I have a way with people. People tend to like me on the surface or I think they do? I tend to get along with people but...

Cons: I get really angry when I don't get any missed calls from any one after coming back from class. I thought people like me?? I thought we get along no? Wouldn't people want to come back for more of my attention????????????????????? HUH???? HAHAHAHA... sigh...

(Note: I'm usually at the dorms (college) and always around people. Today, for the first time in awhile, I am finally alone in my room, back at my parents place, due to Thanksgiving weekend. I stayed up all night... I'm scared of going to bed because that's when my mind really goes haywire and starts having a lot of dark, illogical, hateful, bitter thoughts. Therefore, I wrote this post at 6:00am in the morning)

The ultimate con of all ENFJs: ENFJs CANNOT FUNCTION WHEN THEY ARE ALONE, although we do need some occasional quiet time to ourselves, apparently for me, today is just not the day to be alone. SOMEONE SAVE MEEE~~

I have those thoughts at night too....which is why I am currently staying up and focusing on personalitycafe

[kami]

pros: I love people and I have an easy time being happy, mostly. I'm positive and love helping out organizing things etc, although I'm not great at being in charge.

cons: Like many others said -- I HATE BEING ALONE! Or, at least, being alone without having the option to not be alone. Think it makes me clingy to friends when I'm single, which is not so nice. Also, I tend to commit to doing too much, sometimes, leaving me without enough time or having to disappoint people.

[Kalifornia310]

Yes I always have things planned. lol. I use my sister and her friends as contingency plans. :)

There are usually more enfj's around here.... hmm....

HAHA yeah Im amazed how we all share the same mind-set. it trips me out! im new to this site. and I pretty much will be on here often.
However! I use my brothers(were all close in age) and their friends as Contingency plans as well!

btw! I LOVE BEING ENFJ. I LOVE HELPING PEOPLE!

[Roland]

btw! I LOVE BEING ENFJ. I LOVE HELPING PEOPLE!

hahahaha this is the best quote ever!

post more plz (:

[Kalifornia310]

I am an ENFJ and i prey that everytime i take the test i get it again. I L<3VE the fact that my purpose is to bring out the best in people. I love the fact that when i attend a party i am told it becomes that much more enjoyable. I am often smoked out by friends because they say "I have way more fun when you are high than i could ever get from what i give u". I am a weed smoker, i dont view it as a problem because i am mature enough to never buy it and to never abuse it (i never really have to buy it).
But before i get distracted here and risk sounding like a narcicist. I heard one person say "TO EMBRACE IT!" This is the best advice anyone can offer for any personality type. The reality as u youself said this is me if you or me dont like it this is me anyway for better or worse. I have been diagnosed bi-polar to go through the rollercoaster of emotions myself. I know where you are at, this only changed for me after i realized what an impact i make on other peoples lifes. I never knew people genuinly liked my company and im shure they like being around you too. You just have to know this for yourself and apreciate who you are and what a gift u have to offer the world as a whole. There is nothing more important in this life than l<3ve and happyness and you have the god given talents that are as rare as 2.5% of the general population. This puts u in the fromt row, the vip, the king or more importantly the gester of the world. You will as an ENFJ always have had the god given talent of puting a smile on someones face and i hope that i have done that for you today! You will be in my prayers along with the rest of the world lol. I know that once u wake up to the smell of your gifts and talents you will be greatfull and even bragging about what u have to offer.

I wish u all the best if u ever need someone to talk to ConleyCameron@gmail.com SUBJECT: Peace & L<3ve from personality cafe, And people please don't take my personal e-mail and sell it or cause me to recieve a bunch of spam in any way, thx.

DUDE! Everytime i think on the matter, i feel the same way! Im so glad and even grateful to be an ENFJ,