[Ariana]

So I was browsing through other personality types, and found this forum idea. I thought it might be interesting to start one here, and I hope you guys think so too.

I'll start.

Dear Friend,

I wish I could tell you. I really do. No more hiding it, no more subtle shifts of conversation. Just the truth. But right now I can't. For that I am deeply apologetic. One day though, you will understand. I promise. It will make sense. But for now, keep holding onto me. Don't let go. Soon. Just not today.

Sincerely Yours,
An ENFJ

[penguinfrk]

Dear INFP friend,
You've seen my giant stuffed cow right? Did you know stuffed cows smile when they are loved? When I'm falling asleep, I imagine the stuffed cow is you! I wish you were here with me, I miss you!

Love,
ENFJ

[Jawz]

Dear ENFJ's,

Get yourselves congregated in the ENFJ sub-forum and let's make this place more happening with ENFJ goodness and hyper-activity!

Dear @Ariana.

Thanks for this thread :)

And welcome to the ENFJ sub-forum.

Regards,

Jawz

[TrailMix]

Dear INFP friend,
You've seen my giant stuffed cow right? Did you know stuffed cows smile when they are loved? When I'm falling asleep, I imagine the stuffed cow is you! I wish you were here with me, I miss you!

Love,
ENFJ

IS THAT A PILLOW PET!? I <3 pillowpets

Dear high school,

I just wanted to thank you for being so accepting of my weirdness. There are a lot of schools that would have been considerably less friendly and I wanted to thank everyone in my school for being such a supportive, friendly, and non-judgemental group of people and allowing me to be who I am.

Lossa love,
an ENFJ

PS: I still wouldnt go back ;)

[PaperStars]

Dear particular ENFJ that's not in this forum,

Remember the time I was talking about having feelings for this best friend of mine? And how right after a day of confessing my feelings to you for that person, I told you that I may have misinterpreted my feelings since I had that sexuality talk with my mom? Well, the best friend, that was you.

I've known I had something for you since the third day we spoke. It was this instant connection which grew even stronger after knowing that you're the first ENFJ I've met, ever. And well, our Pokemon conversations and sessions. The search for a person I can confide in and would understand my flaws, a person like me, already ended when you came into my life. That you were the first person I've ever fallen first for.

No, no. Don't think that you're the problem. I've been keeping it for seven months now and I can go on until it subsides. It is starting to subside. And even if it hurts me to be with you sometimes, it's okay. I know you're straight and I respect you for that. I'd rather be the friend you can share everything to than some stranger.

I just ask you one favor. Please don't put yourself down a lot. You're amazing, you just don't see it because you're in the best art school in the country and everyone in this institution is expected to be good. I feel the same way too and I know you compare yourself to me a lot. Please don't do that. That's what hurts me the most. You not being enough for yourself. You yourself is enough for me, for our friends and even for our professors. They really praise you, you know. Stop thinking lowly of yourself. The ones that matter the most are the ones who accept you for you. Remember that.

Loving secretly,
ENfJ.

[chickpeaax]

Dear self,

In the future, try not to feel so bad for things out of your control. It'll help with life.

Sincerely, chickpeaax.

[mommy]

Dear INFP,

Well, you say you are an INFP, but lately I'm not so sure....they say that types under stress can become very like the unhealthy version of their opposite (ESTJ) so maybe thats whats going on with you. Listen, I get that the introversion thing means you have this whole internal world that you won't share with me (you used to, but not anymore)...but you've got to understand, that I can't fully comprehend what you are going through unless you start to share a bit. I had to ask a complete stranger online some questions I needed answered about your condition. I know you think I don't care about it, but I do. If we didn't have a child together I've no doubt we'd probably never see each other, but the fact is that we do, and like it or not we will always be bound in some way by that. I'd much prefer it if we could be the friends that we were before we got involved. I liked you so much then, I felt for the first time perhaps ever, that I'd met someone who really understood me...and I felt I really understood you...it was a very spiritual connection we had...I'd love if we could understand each other like that.
And another thing...I'm a bit p'd off because I feel you've duped me. I only became romantically involved with you because I deeply admired and respected your apparent spirituality...I mean it just was the most loveliest thing about you, I'd never have fallen for you otherwise...I loved your commitment to it, and I loved hearing you speak about it....now it seems though that this "spirituality" has fallen by the wayside...if there is something I cannot tolerate about anyone its when they are fake...I believed this aspect of your personality was very real and uncompromising, I accepted that it would always take precedence over me and I wouldn't have had it any other way...now it seems though, you pick and choose from the "menu" of buddhism when it suits you...man that just f*cking p*sses me off....then you go around telling those who don't know you that well that you are a devout buddhist...chhyaaa right!! Stop using it to impress people, really its below you.

I care about you, I do, and I'm trying to be more tolerant and more positive in order to help us to get along as our sons parents...but my god it felt good to get that out!!!

Thanks,
Me.

[KC]

Dear ENFJs,

Why is it so quiet in here? For all the Fe we're supposed to have, it's awkwardly silent in here. A lotta dust on the shelves if you know what I mean. Makes me kinda scared when I want to post a new thread.

Or is everyone partying in the INFJ sub-forum?

Sincerely,
ENFJ with a torchlight in Silent Hill


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Dear World,

I'm definitely interested in women. I believe I am. I still enjoy the idea of lying with a woman in bed. I don't think I'm gay! So why is it that ALL the women you place before me, fail to intrigue me as such? Are they a different brand of human beings that I am incapable of being with? Or am I some weird paranormal creature from outer space?

Lest you want me to be unfaithful and just jump around the hot ones and after everyone is 30, act like Barney Stinson and try for every woman from every country in the world?

Sincerely,
An ENFJ in need of a REAL woman...

[Niccolo Machiavelli]

So many things to say, such little desire to have you guys reading my thoughts.

[Ariana]

Dear INFJ,

You have been in Wales over three weeks now, and even though I say I miss you I don't think you can truly understand how much I do. You're my best friend and the thought of losing you is my own personal hell. You know how much I care, but do you see how much I honestly love you as a twin brother? I don't think so. But one day you will. I can't wait to see you again, I just wish you didn't have to be so far away. And I wish I could get beyond my problems and focus on you completely. You are in my heart in such a big way. Until we meet again.

Sincerely Yours,
An ENFJ