My older female cousin is a typical ENFJ. She is so charismatic and has so many friends I sometimes wonder if she can mobilize an army to overthrow the government if she wants to. Back in school I felt like she was like my "soulmate" because she was the only one in the family who could talk about things I was really interested in. Now I know it's mainly because of the N function.
I sometimes worry for her because she becomes depressed once in a while like the whole thing is a cycle. The last time she became depressed she tried to commit suicide but fortunately the attempt was not successful. A week or so right before that I had a weird dream where I attended her funeral, all the people she knew came and filled the entire street. She was dressed in white and there were countless white flowers flying in the sky. I told her about the dream and she said me and her always had this mysterious psychic connection. She also said she had "completely recovered" from depression and would not try to do that stupid thing ever again in the future. But from the way she told me I got the sense that she was just deceiving herself.
From the ENFJ profile I know many ENFJs have this same tendency to become depressed and entertain the thought of self-destruction. Anyone who has ever been through this experience and can you offer some advices on how I can help my cousin?