My boyfriend is ENFJ and he's very giving.
I find myself having to help him protect his boundaries.
When he was sick, I had to be the one to say, "ok, i'll leave now, so that you can rest peacefully." cos he felt it was rude to ask me to leave, but he clearly prefered to be alone.
Occassionally, I would find reasons to give him a treat, cos i think it's not good that he's the one who offers to pay all the time.
I know that ENFJ's like to feel needed.
But i'm afraid that he'll OVERGIVE.
I do love his generosity, and I look for ways to show my appreciation to him, cos he clearly deserves all the appreciation possible.
But How can i continue to help him protect his boundaries ?
// My dad is an ENFJ, & my mom takes advantage of him to the extreme. Funny that i have fallen in love with an ENFJ too. But i am trying not to follow in my mom's footsteps //