So basically in December 2010, my ENFJ 15 year old sister moved in with me and my husband. As of last week, I now I have guardianship of her. I haven't lived with my sister since I was 13 years old and she was just kindergartener. I'm having to relearn my sister again because she's a teenager now and she's a different person.
My questions to you ENFJ's out there is this: Did you tend to be an emotional teenager? Did you get upset or offended easily?
I'm noticing this behavior in her and sometimes its like walking on egg shells. She is a girl, so I know hormones have a key in this but I don't ever remember being this emotional. Plus, she's in a rough situation but I went through the same thing at her age too and I just don't remember having so many ups and downs. On her good days, she is such a fantastic kid. She wants to please everyone, super responsible and has such a great sense of humor.
Anything would be helpful!! :)