This is a discussion on ENFJs, Rant about your feelings in here... within the ENFJ Forum - The Givers forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; Originally Posted by sharrkmaster I really want to live in England and get an accent. :D You're very welcome to ...
I'm super worried about having been to the police station to file a claim for having my phone stolen. And involving my best friend who was there. So stressful lol it was like CSI
LOL Just kidding, it's kay, I'm out of the European closet... I'm French.. and no we're not lazy, rude and smelly haha (at least not me... I think.)
I'm going to be living in the US for two six months internships in both 2012 and 2013. Might also spend three months there next summer. I'll just take a detour to wherever you're from, throw you in my luggage (us ENFJs can fit in ANYWHERE) and take you to England. There you'll get surgery to look like Jude Law, and I'll get surgery to look like whoever you like, and we'll do the whole hot cozy vacation in English cottage thing. Then we'll live there and have nice INFP babies.
How good does that sound?
Happy, Sad, Disappointed, Hopeful, Optimistic.... in one week or 1 minute
I`m tired of being ENFJ, I want peace and everybody to leave me alone.
I went to a vacation, took a break and get my thoughs in order, made that ENFJ analyze and tried to make things better for me and for the ones I love. I even have some good new projects starting next year.
I guess I`m going through a dark side but I`m really tired and sad....
I just gotta keep moving on, and make the most of things. Can't let this drag me down, just try to ignore it until the time comes.
Make most of the precious, little time I have!
edit: I just realized this makes it sound like I'm about to die. Don't worry, it's really not a big deal.
I love being an ENFJ, I'm so glad I have this forum to meet new, wonderful, warm people. :D <3
One thing that really bothers me is when someone is really upset, I want to try to say or do anything to make their pain subside even a little. Oftentimes, (according to me ex who I think was an INTP, but not entirely sure) it ends up making me sound overly optimistic/idealistic or patronizing, but it sucks when you genuinely believe things'll get better if you give them time/patience/happiness.
I also feel like anytime I'm upset, I feel like I can't be or don't deserve to be because there are a lot of other people who have it worse out there.
I'm most upset when I'm alone. There are people (on this very forum, in fact-- who I know IRL) who make my troubles disappear whenever I hang out with them!
Is this a common theme with ENFJs? This feeling of helplessness when we can't help?
EDIT: Or maybe I should've read the rest of the posts to see how everyone felt.../DUMB MOMENT orz ;;;