[Tongue Tied]

I don't clean UNLESS it is really messy.

[Razvan]

I don't clean UNLESS it is really messy.

I have this feeling that what you would deem really messy and what a ENFP would, are light years away.

[Essay]

I have this feeling that what you would deem really messy and what a ENFP would, are light years away.

Oh, I dunno. As an ENFP raised by J's, I have a good idea of what constitutes messy and what doesn't. In most cases I'll stick to my parents' standard so as to avoid conflict with any potential person who will experience the space. After all, you never know when you'll have guests. But I know for a fact that I will never have guests in my bedroom, so that remains messy.

[OmarFW]

Pulling ENFJ's away from their housework is a real pain in the ass for me.

I don't see the point in doing something in such a dedicated manner that will only pop up again the next day. live your lives people!

[Jojo]

Pulling ENFJ's away from their housework is a real pain in the ass for me.

I don't see the point in doing something in such a dedicated manner that will only pop up again the next day. live your lives people!

How so? In what manner? People distract us easily.

[roxasquall]

As an ENFJ...YES I MUST HAVE EVERYTHING ORGANIZED.....despite if I'm on the go or not....so yes I can empathize...plus its our "J" side to be organized....depends on how strong of a J you are....I'm actually almost midway so yeah...ORGANIZED!!!

[OmarFW]

How so? In what manner? People distract us easily.

i'm generalizing but from my experience ENFJ's miss out on a lot of fun because of things like housework or similar things