Male Giver reporting in, sire.
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Male Giver reporting in, sire.
I don't think a male ENFJ would be extremely likely to be found on an internet forum, so maybe that's why there are so few of them on here. Shame...I know a few and they are really lovely people.
I agree with some of the ladies on this thread that there are not enough male ENFJ's! I fell in love with the only one I know but sadly he's married.So I've been looking for YOU & I'm happy to see there are more of YOU than I thought & a lot of you are single. Woo hoo! Anyway I think I like you all, because as was said earlier your personality is pretty balanced (feminine\masculine). As a female INTJ, I’m not a typical ‘girly girl’ so I think your sensitivity complements my lack there of. Anyway who’s to say what’s ‘feminine or masculine’. As long as you are comfortable in your own skin, who cares what others think. I really love your charismatic leadership, considerateness, & protective nature.
One of the reasons there are fewer ENFJs around may be the fact that EQ (Emotional Quotient, or Emotional Intelligence) is more dominant in women than in men. There could be and there are many contributing factors to this, none of which I have all the available facts on. All I know is that the parts in EQ that are more relevant to the ENFJ type are more dominant in women.
Thus, fewer men, many women.
long story short 'enfj' is a social chameleon, so i guess i'd figure most of these male 'enfjs' are probably out their typed as something else like entj...
Howdy, Male ENFJ... :) I definetly get the gears from my other male friends for being sensitive, but they appreciate that I will lend an ear and idea when they need to talk over a pint. :)
/Kicks down door
/Hits pose
/Busts a flex
I heard this was the place for the rare breed of male species to report.
Oh the cons of being a man who feels.
Play it off by saying some smart ass comment. Get a few giggles, a few ha-ha's. That always works.
Either that or get into sensitive hardass mode.
Im an enfj male, and im REPRESENTING , lol yeh i'm usually here just reading the chats now, i wish there were more male enfjs here to relate to as a lot of them are girls i feel like so its relatable, but not at the same time because of the gender difference.
/Highfives
F yeah. At this rate well show the other forums this is where the manliest of manly and most sophisticated gentlemen come from.
And here I was thinking I was a little too outrageous for this place. /puts away the guns
*bows* I'll try.
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