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    INFJ - The Protectors

    You know you're an ENFJ when...

    We needed one of these.

    You know you're an ENFJ when:

    1. Sometimes you think you're too happy for this world, so much that you have to try and tone down your enthusiasm for fear of appearing insane.
    2. You feel like you could never run out of love for people and are amazed by how much you could care for each and every one of your friends.
    3. You get confused when people doubt your love for them even when you've showered them with more attention than anyone else. (Ahem, INFPs...)
    4. You laugh too much... and sometimes get in trouble for it.
    5. People are surprised to find out that you've got a little bit of depth to your personality.
    6. Your music taste is all over the place.
    7. There are some people in your life that you hug every time you see them, and you don't know why...
    8. When you get emotional (both happy and sad), you speak a tad metaphorically.
    9. People quote you.
    10. People somehow relate your presence to abstract things such as sunshine, lights and stars.
    11. You love sending your friends mail.
    12. Sometimes you smother your loved ones with so much attention that it embarrasses them, and you just think it's funny. (Examples of an appropriate time to do this is at birthday parties...)
    13. You just go overboard in general.
    That's all I have for now.

    Your turn!
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    ENFJ - The Givers

    1. Everyone knows you around town to the point where friends of friends will recognize your name and introduce themselves to you. Your name preceeds you.
    2. Your facebook page has a cult following and others will repeat your postings on their pages.
    3. You're told that you are so inspiring and how you have changed the lives of others. You however, feel like you did nothing big.
    4. You constantly juggle job networking referrals and people seeking your advice and recommendations on various matters. The fact so many people see you as a leader puzzles you as you simply go for things in life without fear (you don't worry about this too much) and this is why you are succesful. Others actually fear taking the same risks you did and this puzzles you.
    5. Even when you don't want to lead, people vote you class President, Board Member, or Team Leader. Maybe its because you are outspoken and opinionated and charming, but you don't realize this.
    6. You can't simply quietly fit in and go unnoticed, sometimes you envy the types that can as they don't create waves, but you are always noticed even when you're not trying.
    7. People say they can talk to you for hours. Well you adore in-depth conversations.
    8. People say everyone loves you...and this surprises you as you just don't see your impact on others and have a hard time believing that statement, it makes you blush.
    9. You have a hard time saying no, even to the detriment of yourself.
    10. You're a hopeless romantic and can fall in love with any type on MBTI as you always see the potential in others.
    11. When you find out someone has a crush on you, you are in shock and wonder are they sure? Really? If you like them back you become a shy, introvert, the complete opposite of your ENFJ self.
    11. You hate conflict and will avoid speaking badley of others at all costs. If you happen to speak ill of another you give yourself the guilt trip from hell.
    12. You can be very intellectual and bookish, even nerdy at times, but you show this side to only a select few.
    13. You feel people don't always know the real you and you let your guard down to only a select few.
    14. You connect well with people from other cultures.
    15. You are charming and charasmatic according to others.

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    ENFJ - The Givers


    1. There is at least five songs on any given day that can make you cry because of how happy or sad the song is.
    2. Just thinking about negatives that might happen or have happened to a loved one makes you want to curl up into a ball and cry forever, though you usually run out of tears first.
    3. You bounce up and down when excited...and people don't consider you crazy for some reason (even if you think you are)
    4. Life gives you lemons, but you paint that shit gold (someone please get this one lol)
    5. If you are male, you have a hard time dealing with the whole "I cry a lot" thing in public, try to tough it out till you can cry in private.
    6. You're always overly concerned with everyone you care about and are clingy when they are sad.
    7. Symbols are everywhere, and you can draw a line between a song title, bird in a tree, and your life as if it were second nature.
    8. You cry at the end of any movie where someone dies...even if it's the villain sometimes.
    9. You can't shut up...seriously.
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    INFJ - The Protectors

    Quote Originally Posted by lastholidayhere
    11. You hate conflict and will avoid speaking badley of others at all costs. If you happen to speak ill of another you give yourself the guilt trip from hell.
    Oh my goodnes. Spot on. Also, when others talk badly about other people, you feel personally offended 'cause you're probably friends with the person they're talking about. I can't even post on the thread that lists negative traits of each MBTI type.
    Last edited by Benedox; 06-04-2010 at 09:02 PM. Reason: Grammar gets ya sometimes.

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    INFP - The Idealists

    Quote Originally Posted by Benedox View Post
    We needed one of these.

    You know you're an ENFJ when:


    3. You get confused when people doubt your love for them even when you've showered them with more attention than anyone else. (Ahem, INFPs...)
    Guilty.

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    ENFJ - The Givers

    Quote Originally Posted by darkestar View Post
    Guilty.

    gasp!! never doubt my love for you!!! :) yay!!!



    you know your an ENFJ when...

    -you List things out in numerical order. ;P
    -you get this surge of energy when your around people you admire. natural high.
    -you just want to hug the world!
    -you feel so fortunate to be alive and part of something bigger, you just cant quite put your hand on what that is...
    -your heart drops when you see old people holding hands! i just wanna go up to them and hug them!!!
    -You do silly things that make others laugh, which in turn make you happy
    -at work, become so reliable, that everyone forgot how to do things on their own, and always go to you for every question about any department.
    -can look at most things, and know how it can be improved.
    -Randomness and weirdness (in an awesome manner) govern your day!
    -everyone calls you sunshine,sweetie, hunny, etc
    -you get wronged in some unnecessary way, and it puts you over the edge alil, then you make it your new lifes mission to ensure that whoever wronged you painfully suffer 10x more! >:).. or maybe this is just me. XD



    -
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    ENTJ - The Executives

    Haha. I was reading these and just thought I'd say... YOU GUYS ARE AWESOME!!!! <3
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    ENFJ - The Givers

    Quote Originally Posted by darkestar View Post
    Guilty.
    Quote Originally Posted by lastholidayhere View Post
    9. You have a hard time saying no, even to the detriment of yourself.

    11. When you find out someone has a crush on you, you are in shock and wonder are they sure? Really? If you like them back you become a shy, introvert, the complete opposite of your ENFJ self.
    .
    12. You can be very intellectual and bookish, even nerdy at times, but you show this side to only a select few.
    .

    9. this urge will be the downfall of me one day!

    11. WHY!?!!! I get so mad at myself about this! i can flirt up a storm with everything that moves but then "whoa i kinda like you..." and all of a sudden i become quiet, break eye contact, and i make a fool out of my self with some random phrase... or ill go the extreme in just seeming totally uninterested in you. but validating/praising/complimenting all your feats, and wait til you take the first move for fear of total rejection...fml. :(

    12. lately my nerd has been coming out alot lately. but everyone loves a stylish nerd
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    ENFJ - The Givers

    Quote Originally Posted by Benedox View Post
    Oh my goodnes. Spot on. Also, when others talk badly about other people, you feel personally offended 'cause you're probably friends with the person they're talking about. I can't even post on the thread that lists negative traits of each MBTI type.
    Agree!! And the exact opposite thing happens when I am required to list the positive traits of each MBTI type.
    Not just MBTI type, but every person that I know.

    Based on what we already got here:

    People quote you
    yupe.........

    5. Even when you don't want to lead, people vote you class President, Board Member, or Team Leader. Maybe its because you are outspoken and opinionated and charming, but you don't realize this.
    9. You have a hard time saying no, even to the detriment of yourself.
    11. You hate conflict and will avoid speaking badley of others at all costs. If you happen to speak ill of another you give yourself the guilt trip from hell.
    12. You can be very intellectual and bookish, even nerdy at times, but you show this side to only a select few.
    13. You feel people don't always know the real you and you let your guard down to only a select few.
    14. You connect well with people from other cultures.
    15. You are charming and charasmatic according to others.


    My lecturer once asked me: How did you make every body listen, tune in and get so interested during your presentation?
    It was my first presentation in English.

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    ENFJ - The Givers

    Quote Originally Posted by Immortal Beloved View Post
    Haha. I was reading these and just thought I'd say... YOU GUYS ARE AWESOME!!!! <3
    Which points in particular that you find quite awesome?
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