[Lady Lullaby]

11. Even if you have 100 friends, if one of them strays you will drop everything to get them back.

LOL - - sooo true!

You want to feel deeply connected to your loved ones on a daily basis and often drain them because you can't just have an ordinary day.

(I too find myself defensive or easily charged when criticized and it is nice to know I can now learn from other types how to 'reserve judgement'. It is also nice to know that this trait isn't my dad's fault - his barrage of criticism in our home growing up didn't 'make me this way.' ...I can own it and change it!)

You find you can't make a list without making a side note/tangent comment.

You lose sleep over other people's problems when they have forgotten them the next day.

You watch a parade and don't just watch the parade - - you watch families gathered together, see flags and feel patriotic, giggle at the excitement in the eyes of the children, watch the pride in the faces of performers and feel that whatever the holiday is that the parade is celebrating doesn't matter - - you just think humankind needs a parade to celebrate them!

[leesh]

I do this too... My husband will ask me something innocently and I will read all kinds of negative subtext into it... It's true that we ENFJs can perceive attacks when none were intended... and we can be defensive...

Call me out on my "psych doctorness" as my INTJ Aspy once called it, but I think we ENFJ's can fall victim to overactive imagination. We hear slight-of-perfect feedback and we go "F*CK, I FAILED" mode and overcompensate or defend?

It's really good to have an SO that is understanding and patient. For instance, mine is INTJ and, after I get all really defensive and anxious, he finally says, "Hey, it really isn't a big deal! It's pretty good, just a little tough. It's really okay, sweetheart." to which I, "OH. Okay."

yeah i have this problem, i know i have this, but it still happens, so i always keep my doubts to myself. and try to assume the best instead of the worst. I just keep my smile on, but inside, im like "WHY!!! WHY DONT YOU LIKE MY FOOOOOOD!?"
but ill wait til i read more into it. jumping to conclusions is an awesome skill though!!! when your right that is! lol

LOL, this retort is a good one. I think I may steal it. "BUT I MADED YOU A FUUUUUUUUUUD."

[Mutatio NOmenis]

some of these are quite good, but how do you know all this? is your significant other an ENFJ?

Unfortunately not. We got in the awkward "I want to be with you but she wants to be friends mode." Luckily, she's gotten over it although I'm slightly bitter, because people keep on telling me how perfect we are for each other.

[Buckeye]

that sucks...

[walkawaysun09]

When you aspire to impossible dreams...and can never fucking achieve them.

[kiwigrl]

You take everything emotional, too hard, and are slow to recover.

[Kalifornia310]

When you aspire to impossible dreams...and can never fucking achieve them.

AMEN!!!!!! like randomly trying to move to australia just cuz and finding out about Visa's and how im not good enough yet of a person to be allowed to live in australia!!! fuck them! ill get my degree for those bitches! and ill move over there and make everyone love me.. again XD

LOL, this retort is a good one. I think I may steal it. "BUT I MADED YOU A FUUUUUUUUUUD."

so.. im mad at you. but it was only for like 3 seconds. then i got over it. XD I almost LOL'd in the office right now when reading this! i just imagined someone saying this out loud and had to hold my breathe.

okay! so you need to come to southern california so we can hang out! cuz yes fun times will ensure!!!

omg and we can watch Tosh.o!!!! XD XD XD

[Kalifornia310]

1. You try to love everyone.
2. You have 100+ friends and love them all.
3. Your straight opposite gender friends are in love with you
4. Your homosexual same gender friends are in love with you
5. Your bisexual friends are in love with you
6. You wouldn't kill anyone, even in self defense
7. You are compared to walking therapy
8. You are liked by just about everyone
9. You are horrified by the slightest suggestion of dislike
10. You want to cry when you chainsaw someone in Gears of War.

its like your physic, you know me so well!! XD

except for 10. the chainsaw is time consuming, headshots are my specialty. efficient.

[leesh]

so.. im mad at you. but it was only for like 3 seconds. then i got over it. XD I almost LOL'd in the office right now when reading this! i just imagined someone saying this out loud and had to hold my breathe.

okay! so you need to come to southern california so we can hang out! cuz yes fun times will ensure!!!

omg and we can watch Tosh.o!!!! XD XD XD

LOL I love the office contained-burst-of-laughter.

This is like insta-BFF. Southern California and Mr. Tosh? Sounds like a bucket-o-fun. Did you know I got free VIP tickets to Daniel Tosh at Warner Theatre in DC? It was amaaaazing! He is the best. Especially in a cardigan.

[Kalifornia310]

LOL I love the office contained-burst-of-laughter.

This is like insta-BFF. Southern California and Mr. Tosh? Sounds like a bucket-o-fun. Did you know I got free VIP tickets to Daniel Tosh at Warner Theatre in DC? It was amaaaazing! He is the best. Especially in a cardigan.

yeah southern cali! best weather ever, im mean its pretty greedy of us. we're spoiled rotten here and we complain about the slightest change in temp. and guys in board shorts, shirtless and tanned. i mean we should just be taxed for being spoiled this much... oh wait we are! yay for high taxes!

you got to see Daniel live?! you my friend are one lucky female. i wonder... his smile and teeth are they as amazing in real life as they are on TV. it doesnt matter though, he cant talk shit to me any day of the week XD
i like when he wears flannel.... XD