[Megs1090]

Aww, thats so sad...If he likes you and you like him why don't you feel right about it..and cutting off contact is a sad way to go trust me those kinds of breakups really stick with us more emotional guys

Oh i know, but see we never started dating... and im so emotionally loaded myself, that any contact would just throw us both off. And in terms of why i dont feel right.. Im just stuck feeling like im interested in him firstly because he was interested in me.. i never looked at him that way until he came to me, (which was just the most amazing thing ever, i might add) I dunno, another aspect of it is my faith, i just don't feel God calling me to this right now, in fact, i feel him telling me no.

But it def. doesnt make it easy when he posts on facebook on a mutual friends wall where ive commented (since i took him off my friends list..) that he is at home not knowing what to do with himself, listening to the band we essentially bonded over. *siiiiigh* And you know you're an ENFJ when you think the whole mess is all your fault and you totally led him on and it's your fault he's heartbroken



Also, you know you're an ENFJ, with a stronger J when you NEED to follow directions sometimes, like baking/cooking for example. the first time around you NEED the recipe. My ENFP roommate scares the crap out of me when she cooks. lol

[Oreocat]

Oh i know, but see we never started dating... and im so emotionally loaded myself, that any contact would just throw us both off. And in terms of why i dont feel right.. Im just stuck feeling like im interested in him firstly because he was interested in me.. i never looked at him that way until he came to me, (which was just the most amazing thing ever, i might add) I dunno, another aspect of it is my faith, i just don't feel God calling me to this right now, in fact, i feel him telling me no.

But it def. doesnt make it easy when he posts on facebook on a mutual friends wall where ive commented (since i took him off my friends list..) that he is at home not knowing what to do with himself, listening to the band we essentially bonded over. *siiiiigh* And you know you're an ENFJ when you think the whole mess is all your fault and you totally led him on and it's your fault he's heartbroken

Also, you know you're an ENFJ, with a stronger J when you NEED to follow directions sometimes, like baking/cooking for example. the first time around you NEED the recipe. My ENFP roommate scares the crap out of me when she cooks. lol

Ouch thats a tough situation...I've only ever been on the other side of it being the heartbroken one that gets totally cut off..i don't think I should talk about it or you'll just feel worse though. Anyway I really hope you both find someone one day and find out how to work all this out

[Megs1090]

Ouch thats a tough situation...I've only ever been on the other side of it being the heartbroken one that gets totally cut off..i don't think I should talk about it or you'll just feel worse though. Anyway I really hope you both find someone one day and find out how to work all this out

me too. and I'm sorry about what happened to you! I'm sure she had the best intentions when she decided to do it that way

[Oreocat]

me too. and I'm sorry about what happened to you! I'm sure she had the best intentions when she decided to do it that way

>.> I don't think I should talk about it she wasn't a feeler at all and I don't think for a minute she even considered that I have human emotions before some of the stuff that was said to me anyway this isn't about me right now this is about you, I'm sorry that you've had this hardship and I really pray for you that your able to find some way to be happy through all of this

[Megs1090]

>.> I don't think I should talk about it she wasn't a feeler at all and I don't think for a minute she even considered that I have human emotions before some of the stuff that was said to me anyway this isn't about me right now this is about you, I'm sorry that you've had this hardship and I really pray for you that your able to find some way to be happy through all of this

Oh look at us pots calling Izabella black- we've both been apologizing lol. Don't worry about me - And dont worry about concentrating on me here either, I'll be alright. It's obvious that this girl has done some pretty decent damage- i hope that you are able to take what you can from it, and grow, and that we can both find wholeness in the bigger things in life :)

There you go, you know you're a pair of ENFJs when you're apologizing for asking for help, while simultaneously trying to help the other.

[Oreocat]

Oh look at us pots calling Izabella black- we've both been apologizing lol. Don't worry about me - And dont worry about concentrating on me here either, I'll be alright. It's obvious that this girl has done some pretty decent damage- i hope that you are able to take what you can from it, and grow, and that we can both find wholeness in the bigger things in life :)

There you go, you know you're a pair of ENFJs when you're apologizing for asking for help, while simultaneously trying to help the other.

yes so true...I've had it almost get frustrating with another enfj to the point of apologizing that your sorry for apologizing about being sorry so much XD

[Megs1090]

i can see that happening here if we're not careful

[Oreocat]

i can see that happening here if we're not careful

well I'd love to do this all night..er morning but its almost 4 am so I'll cya around, nice meeting you meg ^_^

[Megs1090]

likewise oreocat! sleep well :)

[Nobleheart]

You know you're an ENFJ if you apologize too much and hand out too many compliments, hehe.