when Nanny McPhee was addressing the children and said "When you don't want me, but you need me, I will be here, but when you want me, and no longer need me, I will be gone."
I think a lot of ENFJ's end up following that quote subconsciously because of the necessity of feeling needed.
thoughts? I dunno if anyone else has seen that movie... (Colin Firth starred in it)
just brought it to mind for me.