After looking more into the natural weaknesses of my type, I've noticed that one of our biggest problems is manipulation.
I may just be naive, but I've never really understood what this means. To me, that's a red flag, because I could just be unaware of it in myself and be hurting people without realizing it.
Basically, I just want to know personal experiences with this problem, and what it looks like in practice.
And if you've never noticed this problem before, what are other pro's/con's of ENFJs?