[Repus]

Do you say yes, so you dont hurt there feelings, but end up not following through

Or do you ignore it



or just a flat out no

or make some excuse why youre too busy

[Regan]

just nicely say no
you don't need to make some bullshit excuse, don't be a puss

[jdmn]

I say no, because of the reasons I have. But I wouldn't say no and being tactless, I would say it in a kind and nice way.. persuading the people... xD

[thehigher]

Do you like them? Are you tired? Have you been hanging out with too many people? I'd analyze your reasons for why you don't want to and then if they make sense.... then it shouldn't offend the person. I'm just really tired..... that wouldn't hurt. I've been hanging out a lot and need to get work done..... that wouldn't hurt. If just plain don't like the person .... or if you just don't want to be in their presence for whatever reason..... that's harder. I'd say give them hints. Speak in the manner that lets them know that you are not that interested in their company.

[Tongue Tied]

"no... [whatever the reason]" If you are tired, you can say "no, I'm tired" or "no, I'm not in the mood right now to hang out."

[mutton]

I'm normally just tell them no and a vague " I have other things to do". Those other things may be anything from previous plans to just needing to go to bed, but whatever it is it's not really their concern.

[Repus]

well i asked cuz i msg'd this enfj girl

told her to give me a shout when she gets back home from vacation

she said 'for sure, i will on the weekend'

then she never got back to me.

should i be taking Hints? wink wink nudge nudge.

[mutton]

Maybe she forgot.

[Repus]

enfj have bad memories?

[mutton]

It depends on the individual.

She agreed to call when she got back from vacation. You didn't indicate how long the vacation was, but there is a good possibility it may have cleared her mind a bit. Vacations can do that to anybody.