Why would an ENFJ male completely & deliberately ignore a female? I had a very awkward experience this weekend with a former co-worker who knew I was sitting about 25 feet away from him with nothing & no one in between us. He just positioned himself in a way so that his head was behind a pole as if I couldn't see him. I did not go over to greet him because he made it very obvious he did not want to talk with me. It got even more uncomfortable when his friends came over to sit with him & yelled over to me to say 'hello', but he still acted like I was not there. Do you know why that might be?
This is the second time he acts that way. The last time I saw him we were in the same place getting something to eat & from my peripheral vision I caught him hiding behind his wife so that I would not see him? I have never chased him down or anything & we have never had an argument. I'm an INTJ so it's not like I'm a big talker that he's trying to avoid. I'm just a bit confused by it. Do you all have any theories?