For the past month or so I've been dating someone that I would type as an ENFP. (I'm not 100% on EN yet, but she is definitely FP).
I really like her. A lot. As unhealthy as it might be I'm sort of looking for her "hidden" faults right now (mainly because I'm extra picky/guarded due to my previous relationship). So far there is only one thing that I've found. She tends to be a bit flaky and unorganized. For example, I'm the type that likes to set up plans and then follow them (aren't all of us J's that way?) she, on the other hand likes to wait until the day before or the day of to plan something. I can be flexible, but this interferes with my ability to plan other things and it is starting to be a minor annoyance at this point.
I'm just wondering how other J's deal with a relationship with a P. I'm pretty good at being flexible, but this is pretty early on and I'm not sure if I could deal with it if it escalates a bunch later.
P.S. - The other night she did ask me to go to a charity event with her that is a few weeks away, so at least that shows that she does possess the ability to plan in some degree.
I really like her. A lot. As unhealthy as it might be I'm sort of looking for her "hidden" faults right now (mainly because I'm extra picky/guarded due to my previous relationship). So far there is only one thing that I've found. She tends to be a bit flaky and unorganized. For example, I'm the type that likes to set up plans and then follow them (aren't all of us J's that way?) she, on the other hand likes to wait until the day before or the day of to plan something. I can be flexible, but this interferes with my ability to plan other things and it is starting to be a minor annoyance at this point.
I'm just wondering how other J's deal with a relationship with a P. I'm pretty good at being flexible, but this is pretty early on and I'm not sure if I could deal with it if it escalates a bunch later.
P.S. - The other night she did ask me to go to a charity event with her that is a few weeks away, so at least that shows that she does possess the ability to plan in some degree.