[Sunrain]

So..we have threads about the mistakes we make, about depression and about the things that trouble us, so how about a nice positive one instead.:

What do you like about yourself? What are your good points?

I think I will post this in each section to see what the different personality types like about themselves.

=)

[mutton]

One of the things I like the best is my ability to see both sides of an issue, and to understand where the other person is coming from, even if I don't agree. This is especially helpful when someone is venting about so-and-so, as I can help them to understand why that person is doing whatever it is they are doing. Even if it doesn't solve the problem, it usually helps calm things a bit, or even give them an idea of how to proceed.

I also like my reliable nature most of the time (though there are days I wish I could just blow off responsibilities....).

One of my most useful traits is being able to get a rather accurate feel for a person almost immediately.( Unfortunately this couples with an unliked trait of mine of sometimes going against my initial judgment and giving a person the benefit of the doubt. I like to wish for the best, even if I expect the worse.- of course, perhaps wishing for the best of others isn't a horrible trait)

[Auryn4]

Hmmm... hard question?...

I like that I can teach anybody almost anything...! As long as I know what it is, I seem to have the nice ability to be able to teach it to anyone no matter what their view point is or their age or what not. People often comment I should become a teacher... and it may be in the cards one day... just not sure what kind of teacher as of yet!

Other than that I currently like the ability to be very empathetic ... it helps me reach out to people a lot and understand what they are going through so I can help them or at least be a much better ear for them.

:)

I think 2 is good for now!!

- Tabby B

p.s Yay! My first post!

[Tongue Tied]

I like how I can see special things about people that others might miss.

[jkikerx78]

I like the way I'm able to communicate with people, no matter where in the world they are from...as long as they speak english lol. I like that I can use my intuition and feelings to lock in on their personality...makes me very persuasive. Since I'm able to see the big picture all the time, I love that it helps me dodge the majority of traps life throws at me.

[Shadow1980]

I like my resilient sunny disposition. No matter what horrors life throws my way, I'm able to get past them with a big laugh and a smile on my face. Being an ENFJ type 7 can be pretty damn fun. :)

[steelbutterfly]

I like my resilient sunny disposition. No matter what horrors life throws my way, I'm able to get past them with a big laugh and a smile on my face. Being an ENFJ type 7 can be pretty damn fun. :)

can you explain the ENFJ "type 7" thing? i've never seen that before.

[steelbutterfly]

i love that i am always positive and full of hope. (as long as there is somebody nearby)
i love that my thoughts are in vivid color and i LOVE color. it's like music to me.
i love that i love to sing and create music
i love that i can know what somebody is feeling just by the subtleties of their body language and voice fluctuation
i love that i can inspire people with a few words :D
i love that i can teach people almost anything
i love that i get unspeakable joy out of simple things like making somebody smile, or seeing a beautiful flower

(i am alone in my office on break and my boss next door hates my guts, which is like cyanide to me. you have no idea how hard it was to stay positive. thank you for the thread, it reminds me that i must stay positive and not allow myself to slip into hopelessness.)

[OCDTC12]

I love ENFJs because they keep control of a situation so well, but without being jerky about it (usually). I feel like we do a good job as leaders because people always want to shake our hands, even if we rule with an iron fist.

[Kalifornia310]

i just love that i love! and i love more then other types! selflessness. but unfortunately all the positive qualities have dark sides as well!