[alexis]

I'm the INFP... I met this ENFJ last Thursday, left the country on Saturday for three weeks, but we've been on skype everyday and we've both established that we'd like to date the other.



Anyway. What should I expect in a relationship with an ENFJ?

[Roland]

mind blowing sex :D

(i mean we are known as being the "givers")

[Hikari]

there are far better things than sex, like love and romance, compassion and empathy. but if those are in the sex then... :P

ANYWAY, since you are an INFP you should go well with an ENFJ. I dont know all that much about ENFJ's but from what i do know they sound awesome. besides, you dont need to be expecting or planning anything. just be yourself, follow your feelings and things will always work out ^^ that what INFP's are good at right?

[Optimus]

mind blowing sex :D

(i mean we are known as being the "givers")

what on earth.. dude not in front of her, you're making us look bad.

[Roland]

what on earth.. dude not in front of her, you're making us look bad.

bhahahaahha yeah mybad, ill take that out. I have a bad habit of stating the obvious.

edit: fuck I can't delete it. fuck hahaha fuuuuuuuuuuuuu

[bonfirequeen]

This is great! I'm an ENFJ girl and I'm so interested in what ENFJ guys are like. Post away, gentlemen.

[NotKevinCostner]

Well,I too am an INFP and ENFJs are our natural partner..so I think you should expect a natural chemistry and a BIG LOUD CLICK. Yes, they are givers..but in a way so are INFPs ( even though we can be a bit more selfish than ENFJs). INFPs love to give and ENFJs love to give, so if things go well..your personalities will ensure that the other is receiving alot of love, kind words, positive reinforcement, and nurturing of emotional well beings.

To me, the one really bad thing about the combo is the INFPs need for alone time and recharging..and the ENFJs need to not be alone. If things get serious, you need to make sure he knows that you will need to have occasional " me time" . Chances are he will be very understanding of this, and he will learn your body language and the signs that you need to recharge..so he will not need to ask or be asked.


Not to mention tons of indecisiveness, I think that INFPs and ENFJs are two of the more indecisive types! But that's all in good fun.

Good Luck!

[INFPPP]

I'm the INFP... I met this ENFJ last Thursday, left the country on Saturday for three weeks, but we've been on skype everyday and we've both established that we'd like to date the other.

Anyway. What should I expect in a relationship with an ENFJ?

ENFJs get involved. When an ENFJ likes you, Like REALLY likes you, you've never been more sure of a thing in your life. Don't assume you're going to waltz into a relationship just because he's interested in a date right now.

Keeping an ENFJ interested is hard since they can conquer most girls affection easily with their listening skills and goading. Keep it challenging for them (they take their time anyways). Radiate mystery and ambiguity, ENFJs especially eat that up with a spoon. But be subtle - if you're too hot n' cold they'll think you're schizophrenic and they fiercely protect those insides of theirs. You'd be surprised though at what a turn on coquetry can be for ENFJs (all ENxxs actually). Don't be afraid of hurting their feelings a little by being hard-to-get -it'll only deepen their desire.

This really is an amazing match though. Magical. Epic. The stuff dreams are made of.

[INFPPP]

I should add that the way ENFJs show they care and desire you is through helping you achieve your dreams and goals. It may come off as pushy or overwhelming, but it's the equivalent of you as an INFP giving a shoulder to someone to lean on. It's how they love.

[Memphisto]

I should add that the way ENFJs show they care and desire you is through helping you achieve your dreams and goals. It may come off as pushy or overwhelming, but it's the equivalent of you as an INFP giving a shoulder to someone to lean on. It's how they love.

This is so true... I am just starting to realize this...