He can't manipulate or play with you if you are honest throughout..
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He can't manipulate or play with you if you are honest throughout..
If he's an ENFJ, and if he's anything like me, he might not want to appear clingy. Therefore, he may not call, text, or arrange to hang with you so frequently. He simply might also be busy with other things or people. Yes - ENFJs love personal quality time with people they love, especially romantically, but they are also get up and go people who crave to see other people. While his behavior might raise a red flag in your mind, he probably thinks things are going perfectly; I would think so based on the information you provided.
Yeah, I considered that option too because we had an argument once and I thought that we won't talk anymore and that he is mad at me but then he acted normal, like the fight didn't meant anything at all for him. But do you think that I should tell him what bothers me and ask him about his behavior?
It might make him self-conscious. Like he doesn't want to step on your toes. It also could do the opposite and might make him more comfortable... because he'll have a little more understanding of what's going on in your end.
Honestly, I say do whatever you think is best. Whatever you feel more comfortable in doing. If he likes you and you like him I don't really see how anything can go wrong...
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