So, my Boyfriend (of 6 months now, but going GREAT, thanks for askin'!) has his birthday later this month. I had blocked off my calendar to take him out for his b-day or be free for a group outing with his friends to celebrate... and then come to find out (I actually forgot) one of my really Good Friends (of years) has his annual b-day dinner that I had been to a few times before on the same exact day. Fun sidenote that they share the same b-day, of course. I let my Good Friend know that I already had plans (I didn't say what) and that I can take him out one-on-one the night before, with the fun mention that I just can't share him with all those people, it's too painful- tee hee. He didn't seem to take it well. Not sure quite what to do... I don't want to suggest to make it a combo deal... I'm pretty sure there will be 2 different groups, plus people tend to not like to share the spotlight on their day. I guess I'm feeling guilty or bad, and can react when I feel like I let someone down... my Good Friend was there at my b-day... but this is my Boyfriends' b-day, too, someone who methinks is a good match for me for a long haul, and I would like to celebrate his b-day together for the first time... Thoughts?