Love Types: ENFJ

Mystic Jenn · 11-04-2008, 07:30 PM

If You Are the ENFJ: Growth Teacher

"Love is being consumed by my loved one."

You Are Someone Who:

Is an excellent communicator and persuader.
Can be an effective leader and motivator.
Can be jealous and possessive if you feel your mate is taking you for
granted.
Love to give your friends advice and counsel.
Is very emotionally supportive.

If You Are Female, Your Best Matches Are:
ENJFs: Growth Teachers
ISTPs: Craftspersons

If You Are Male, Your Best Matches Are:
ENJFs: Growth Teachers
ENFPs: Social Philosophers
INFP: Idealistic Philosophers
ISTP: Craftsperson

If You Want to Win the Heart of Your Ideal Mate, Do the Following:
For ENFJs:
*Don't make them jealous; when you're with them (especially in the beginning of the relationship), don't be overly attentive of other attractive people.
*Provide plenty of verbal affection.
*Make sure you are on time for your dates.
*Show respect and support for their strongly held opinions, beliefs, and
preferences.

For ENFPs:
*Join them on fun, active dates such as salsa dancing or beach rendezvous with poetry and wine.
*Stimulate their playful imagination: leave mysterious notes on their doorstep, dress up like historical characters, or ask them thought- provoking questions such as "what would we do if we were stranded on a desert island?"
*Invite others to join the fun--ENFPs love to be around other people and will enjoy your company even more when you create a lively social environment.
*Keep up with their agile conversation as they enthusiastically switch from one intriguing topic to another.

For ISTPs:

*Talk less and do more--the more spontaneous you are, the better.
*Join them in their favorite high-thrill hobbies such as jet skiing, kayaking, or parachuting.
*Show appreciation for their hands-on skills as they tinker with a '65 Mustang, practice on a Fender Stratocaster guitar, or bake delicious homemade brownies.
*Give them plenty of independence and space; allow them to come to you when they are ready.
For INFPs:
*Keep the conversation warm, personal, and conflict-free.
*Be wary of violating their deeply held values.
*Engage them in conversation and take them on dates that revolve around the arts, relationships, psychology, and finding the meaning of life.
*Be considerate of their need to spend quiet, intimate time with you.

**slowriot** · 11-25-2008, 07:19 PM

I was in a relationship with an enfj back some years. Until she found someone else behind my back, it was an intense experience. I was very intrigued by her, she showed me a different perspective to ideas, music, art. She intellectually fascinated me aswell.

I think I've been interested in another one that was an enfj aswell and the one Im interested in right now has that enfx vibe about her.

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Mystic Jenn · 11-25-2008, 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted by slowriot

I was in a relationship with an enfj back some years. Until she found someone else behind my back, it was an intense experience. I was very intrigued by her, she showed me a different perspective to ideas, music, art. She intellectually fascinated me aswell.

I think I've been interested in another one that was an enfj aswell and the one Im interested in right now has that enfx vibe about her.

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LOL! Yeah, they are rather intoxicating, aren't they?

**slowriot** · 11-25-2008, 07:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Mystic Jenn

LOL! Yeah, they are rather intoxicating, aren't they?

yes, but there's this thing about someone that can completely do whatever they want with you, they use that power sometimes.

ENFJ = manipulation.

But they are so freaking intoxicating

Mystic Jenn · 11-25-2008, 07:43 PM

Yeah, but I like it when they manipulate me in a good way.

**DayLightSun** · 11-25-2008, 09:23 PM

Not me he wanted so see people on the side. Yeah right!!!

**slowriot** · 11-27-2008, 05:56 PM

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Originally Posted by daylightsun

Not me he wanted so see people on the side. Yeah right!!!

The only J type that wants to keep things as open as possible. Sometimes the manipulation works and you got two to choose from.

**DayLightSun** · 11-27-2008, 06:01 PM

It's so over between him and me it's not even funny.

**slowriot** · 11-27-2008, 06:08 PM

Sounds like your better off without him aswell

**DayLightSun** · 11-27-2008, 06:12 PM

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Originally Posted by slowriot

Sounds like your better off without him aswell

The sad thing is that I was really happy. Like honestly speaking. I didn't see any reason to look somewhere else. I was content.
But he and I broke up. A year pasted by and we started talking and I thought we might get together again.
But he played bad games with my heart.
It feels like his a bad addiction that I can't stop thinking about.