Hum I would actually expect a woman to have job, independence, etc.
What intimidate me though is the standard of woman my age. They are approaching their mid-20s and all they have in mind is to settle and make babies. It's pretty scary for a guy like me who never even dated a girl... all these girls on the internet who want to have "serious relationship" with the perfect guy with a three line ad on the internet that says absolutely nothing about them or what they want from their partner. All of this is pretty crazy to me.