We are limited to being a consciousness placed in motion set. What you've failed to realize is that everything is in a constant patterned motion. People can be predicted, coincidence can be predicted, so yeah nothing is a coincidence, just all the variables and complexities coming together in unison as they're supposed to. We call this sumation of everything destiny. You might want to believe this force doesn't apply to you, maybe to feel as if you have more control of everything around you. Lets put this in very very simple terms. There is a sheet of paper filled from left to right and top to bottom with numbers. At first glance you think the numbers are all random. But in reality there has been a particular pattern embeded throught the page the whole time. You just couldnt see it because it might be too complex or don't know what signs to look for.