You don't know what God is. Some things written down to tell us what God is, is just to get us by until we can understand the nature of God more.
And what to understand is, we don't know, and we only know our life experience, and adding God to that, we only know God's actions, not the intent.
When we think of God's intent, it is matching up to the values we hold as good and true.
And this makes sense to me.