Each individual has a bag in which it carries personal history. These stories are barely unravelled, shared, revealed extensively.
Meanwhile there are tools established for operation because we're required to direct ourselves while carrying this bag.
As we accumulate new information 24/7 within our biologically and humanly designed system(s), a collision takes place consisting out of different kinds of perceptual experiences. This drastically influences behaviour in general.
Because superficial assumptions may often be misleading or unfulfilling, observations of behaviour require deep investigation. This is often a tricky task. After all we are born with 'slippery' minds and we're bound to the ways (laws, structures, constructions) of nature.
When looking at ourselves, are we living a lie or discovering truth?
...The ways in which you describe occurences around you and within yourself might just be the *cover* of a book. You are likely the best person to find the -keys- to the *content* of that book. This encompasses a story which is your own and takes place in a shared world of ('wandering') individuals.