Hello,
I'm trying to understand cognitive functions so that I can work out my personality type. I have read lots of material about the different functions but I still can't work out what functions I use the most. The only way I can figure out how to do this is by posting examples of my behaviour and you guys telling me what functions I was using at the time.
I hope that makes sense. So in this scenario what functions was I using?
I was in a club with friends the other night and one guy started dancing with us. Then my friend and this guy started kissing. They haven't never met before it was a spontaneous moment.
The guy then left our group without saying goodbye - he just walked off. And so I said "Where did he go?" and my friend who was kissing him said "I don’t' know". So I looked around the corner where the bar is to see if he was getting a drink or something and I saw him sat with two other girls, arms around them chatting them up etc.
My friend was really hurt by this, but I was not surprised. My two other friends were also hurt by his actions and were very protective of my friend who had been kissing the guy. The night ended with one of my friends shouting at the guy and my other friend slapping him.
This annoyed me. I thought my friends behaviour was completely unnecessary. This guy was basically on the pull, he had made no promises so getting angry at him and slapping him was unnecessary. My friend was very hurt and I could sympathise, she got her hopes up. But a night club is not a place to meet your future boyfriend!
I didn't tell my friends my thoughts because I didn't want to upset them. Instead I told my friend who had kissed the guy that he isn't worth getting upset over and it is his loss.
Today the subject was brought up again about what happened and I decided to tell her my thoughts on the matter and she just said she's over it now so doesn't really care what happened that night. Which is fair enough.
So...what functions was I using here?
Thanks!
I'm trying to understand cognitive functions so that I can work out my personality type. I have read lots of material about the different functions but I still can't work out what functions I use the most. The only way I can figure out how to do this is by posting examples of my behaviour and you guys telling me what functions I was using at the time.
I hope that makes sense. So in this scenario what functions was I using?
I was in a club with friends the other night and one guy started dancing with us. Then my friend and this guy started kissing. They haven't never met before it was a spontaneous moment.
The guy then left our group without saying goodbye - he just walked off. And so I said "Where did he go?" and my friend who was kissing him said "I don’t' know". So I looked around the corner where the bar is to see if he was getting a drink or something and I saw him sat with two other girls, arms around them chatting them up etc.
My friend was really hurt by this, but I was not surprised. My two other friends were also hurt by his actions and were very protective of my friend who had been kissing the guy. The night ended with one of my friends shouting at the guy and my other friend slapping him.
This annoyed me. I thought my friends behaviour was completely unnecessary. This guy was basically on the pull, he had made no promises so getting angry at him and slapping him was unnecessary. My friend was very hurt and I could sympathise, she got her hopes up. But a night club is not a place to meet your future boyfriend!
I didn't tell my friends my thoughts because I didn't want to upset them. Instead I told my friend who had kissed the guy that he isn't worth getting upset over and it is his loss.
Today the subject was brought up again about what happened and I decided to tell her my thoughts on the matter and she just said she's over it now so doesn't really care what happened that night. Which is fair enough.
So...what functions was I using here?
Thanks!